I will have to partially agree and disagree. Im disagreeing because while there are trife females out there, on the flip side, sistas who are attached need to realize that EVERYBODY DONT WANT THEY MAN! And when women dont want other women, in addition to they friends around thier guy, its becuase they are insecure themselves and about what they are afraid they man might do out of they sight. It isnt always a diabolical scheme to take someone elses man...
Productive black men are noticeable, but only when women find their biological clocks close to running out or when they been thouroughly screwed over by thugs. In other words a d--n near emergency.
Until then, it's almost like we are the shadowy CIA paramilitary Black Ops units, operating under the cover of darkness, and rarely if ever acknowledged.
I notice it moyself. I think this phenomenom could due to the fact that most people in general are not risk-takers, women especially. They do not like to take a risk on the unknown or someone unproven.
Funny though that the average westernized woman will throw themselves at a married or unsingle man & yet will hypocritically get angry themselves at other women who try to steal their men. That's why it's hard for me to take women very seriously as my equal.
And not only that allot of women throws themselves on a man and flirt with him when he is in a relationship but when a man is single them same women didn't even look at him or give him the time of day. This goes on allot and I experienced it.
Im in a Junior College and the (Smart BF's) think they repersent the hard working black woman....and that nobody is on their same level....you know like they look down on other BM's who attending and i dont get that...always sayn they deserve better and what not....black women distance theirself from us BM's they take pride to a whole other level
The "Change your circle" argument irks me everytime. It only serves to let them sty in denial about magnitude of the problem. Alot of men who hop the fence do so because they're tired of they complaints falling on deaf ears.
As a black woman in a relationship with a black man, EVERYTHING you said in this video is true. There were many times where my boyfriend would tell how women in general would throw themselves at his feet. Of course, I know that the qualities that makes my boyfriend attractive to me would make him attractive to other women and I chose to not be jealous or insecure. However, the fact that women are willing to do anything and everything for a piece of a man makes me shake my head in despair.
Tks, the approach to this video is what I wanted from u. We also know we r the minority among the BW pool but, we exist. Therefore, we should not be over looked either. A small 1 liner or disclaimer as u did w/ this video helps remove the generalizations and focus on the specific target group u r addressing. I just want a balanced opinion to the discussions u raise by ALL involved. The statement I made was not just aimed at U. It was directed at those that were making comments too. Take care.
I will have to partially agree and disagree. Im disagreeing because while there are trife females out there, on the flip side, sistas who are attached need to realize that EVERYBODY DONT WANT THEY MAN! And when women dont want other women, in addition to they friends around thier guy, its becuase they are insecure themselves and about what they are afraid they man might do out of they sight. It isnt always a diabolical scheme to take someone elses man...
ljsrmissy 1 year ago
Productive black men are noticeable, but only when women find their biological clocks close to running out or when they been thouroughly screwed over by thugs. In other words a d--n near emergency.
Until then, it's almost like we are the shadowy CIA paramilitary Black Ops units, operating under the cover of darkness, and rarely if ever acknowledged.
willia3r 1 year ago 2
@TheGreatM16
I notice it moyself. I think this phenomenom could due to the fact that most people in general are not risk-takers, women especially. They do not like to take a risk on the unknown or someone unproven.
Funny though that the average westernized woman will throw themselves at a married or unsingle man & yet will hypocritically get angry themselves at other women who try to steal their men. That's why it's hard for me to take women very seriously as my equal.
willia3r 1 year ago
A productive Black Man in a relationship is the most desired man on the planet. Especially if he's with a Black Woman.
Mhendeb 1 year ago
@rockb922,
+1
fairguynova 1 year ago
@Greendestiny122388
And not only that allot of women throws themselves on a man and flirt with him when he is in a relationship but when a man is single them same women didn't even look at him or give him the time of day. This goes on allot and I experienced it.
TheGreatM16 1 year ago
Im in a Junior College and the (Smart BF's) think they repersent the hard working black woman....and that nobody is on their same level....you know like they look down on other BM's who attending and i dont get that...always sayn they deserve better and what not....black women distance theirself from us BM's they take pride to a whole other level
QBez1 1 year ago
The "Change your circle" argument irks me everytime. It only serves to let them sty in denial about magnitude of the problem. Alot of men who hop the fence do so because they're tired of they complaints falling on deaf ears.
rockb922 1 year ago 2
That Gender war bull crap is just a distraction and only Tv addicts and immature folks buy into that propaganda bull crap.
Jabbaro123 1 year ago
As a black woman in a relationship with a black man, EVERYTHING you said in this video is true. There were many times where my boyfriend would tell how women in general would throw themselves at his feet. Of course, I know that the qualities that makes my boyfriend attractive to me would make him attractive to other women and I chose to not be jealous or insecure. However, the fact that women are willing to do anything and everything for a piece of a man makes me shake my head in despair.
Greendestiny122388 1 year ago
"We're not big..." -> :0)
fairguynova 1 year ago
Tks, the approach to this video is what I wanted from u. We also know we r the minority among the BW pool but, we exist. Therefore, we should not be over looked either. A small 1 liner or disclaimer as u did w/ this video helps remove the generalizations and focus on the specific target group u r addressing. I just want a balanced opinion to the discussions u raise by ALL involved. The statement I made was not just aimed at U. It was directed at those that were making comments too. Take care.
LifeChanger711 1 year ago
Nice video! A lot of women do that and I think it's a psychological insecurity that needs to be addressed in a relationship.
monopolydevil 1 year ago