Child loss, and PCOS and the stupid things people say

A glimpse into my story, about child loss, infertility and PCOS and ridiculous things that have happened and have been said to me.

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• PCOS
• infertility
• baby
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[Zyphindra]

You didn't look like a dork, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!  You didn't sound stupid, YOU ARE WISE AND LIVING WITH PCOS, SO YOU HAVE THE FACTS TO BACK UP YOUR TONGUE! I favorited your video because you said everything I wanted to myself! I was shocked to hear that these women turned against you, I began to tear up! I wish I could give you a big hug and talk to you, and support you when the world fails to. I also live with PCOS and it'll never get easy! I wish you and DH best of luck sweetie, God bless!

[ilovejohnny1984]

Thank you!!! I really appreciate your kind words!

I need to post a new video its been 10 months!

[1234DEBROUX]

That was said to me after the loss of my son. I also suffer from PCOS. You are not alone. I have been suffering since I was 19-20yrs old. I am now 31yrs, and continue to suffer. That is so so ingnorant of them to say things like that. I can't believe how cruel people can be. I also am adopting. I lost my son 5yrs. ago and it still hurts like it was yesterday.

[ilovejohnny1984]

thank you! I know that pain it never really goes away I'm so sorry to hear you too have experienced that loss. My daughter would have been 6 this December.

[JLHarris0419]

I hope the best for you. As an adopted child, I can tell you that you are making the most loving decision anyone can make. Hopefully the process won't take too long, I think any baby who finds himself in your arms will be one lucky kid.

Your words spoke volumes, none can know what your loss feels like and what it is like to live your life. Your explanation about your attachment to the paper was right on. I have always had a hard time explaining myself in that regard.

[ilovejohnny1984]

we have been working towards adopting a little girl we were asked about a month and a half ago, we finally got to meet her last week and have had 3 visits and one overnight. We find out tomorrow if we get to adopt her, and if the parental rights will be terminated. i feel bad saying that in a way but the truth is the child has been in foster care for over a year and in 3 foster homes during that time, i think the best thing for her is to be adopted and get some permanent stability!

[BrownFaceTV]

I am so sorry for your loss and sorry for everything that has happened. Those people you mentioned were very inconsiderate. Yeah, my friends always say, you should be lucky not to have a period...WHAAAAAAA?? I'm a WOMAN I'm supposed to have that function. I wish you all the best.

[datladyluva]

I have been going through this all my life since i was 13 i am 37 now and I just had a partial hysterectomy last may and i am not able to have any children. I had a baby 16 years ago and she died after a year so I know your pain and struggle with PCOS. Good luck hun

[misspropane123]

Was very touched by your story, I to have the same problem, been married for 17 year and we just adopted a baby boy in October 2010, a real little angel the only regret was not doing it sooner. Invested so much money in IVF no results, don't allow people to live rent free in your mind, I now put my energies in people that support my dreams, and understand the hurt that we go thought with this PCOS, thank you for posting your thoughts I feel for you,

[Striots130]

omg this is sooo truee:"))

[findyourresolve]

I'm 13 and have had PCOS ever since puberty hit me =[ It's depressing.

[howlingserenity]

its so uncommon for people to hear of such a disease. im very sad to hear about the loss of your baby. people don't understand how difficult it can be to live with. pcos caused me to miss out on high school and not be able to graduate with my class. unless someone has it they don't completly understnad it. im 19 now, and my parents are the same way as yours are. i hope everything gets better for you and you are one day able to have a child yourself. best of wishes

[Mandapandapaw]

i amso sorry about the verbal abuse from others and i cry for ur lost dauther . i have pcos also and i hate when ppl tell me its not real adn they say that "oh dont worry ur young" i hate that also they dont know how worried we are that we might never get pregnant that the earge to be a mother is in our soul and is so strong that even the thought of not having a baby of our own it tears our hearts out . all i have to say is "i feel ur pain " and pray for u .im 24 /texas im miranda

[htt19403]

Sorry for your lost. I have PCOS myself and i am lucky to be blessed with three kids, don't give up girl. I lost 102 pounds and i now get my period every 28-31 days.

[hanashiraz]

im so sorry for ur lose..even im suffering vth pcos and endometriosis last 3years..im 21years nw..doctrs suggesting me to get married as soon..n most probably aftr gvng a birth,it vl settle itseems..but im not sure dear..this kind of diseases r very bad.. :(( i dnt lyk to get married..

[kd2483]

I am sorry for your loss. I know what its like to have lost your baby and to have no support and on your own to get threw it. I hope that you don't let these people effect your outlook in life.

[tayaskjelstad]

I have PCOS too and I know exactly what you mean! People say things just because they are trying to make you feel better. Most of the time people are just ignorant and need to be educated about it. You are a strong person and I hope things go well with you. Try to stay positive and be proud of who you are despite what anyone else says to you. Thanks for posting this :) You aren't alone!