What do you think?
Uploader Comments (librarising79)
All Comments (9)
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Life is short. Be happy and go for it!! You should be honest with the other person, and if they aren't interested, then that is their loss. By the way, I'm 32, and I haven't heard your background song since I was 10 :)
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nice choice of soundtrack btw
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Being forthright is important. I've been the other and, it simply isn't the way. I would tell the person. I would hope the person would tell me, despite the result.
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Should tell them sooner rather than later, right from the start is how I've always done things, no bullshit, straight no chaser. No point in things if you're interested and they aren't because of whatever reason that gets revealed later, fuck that, not how to do things. Just be honest, period, simple as that, let the chips fall as they may from that point forward. That is how I landed my wife (7 years and running), we both had things we needed to tell one another and did so right from the start.
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Girl you should worry a little less. If you got someone you would like to get to know a little better. Get to know them. Who knows you might no want a relationship after getting to know them. As far as when to bring it up sounds like 3rd date material. Get out in the world meet people have fun.
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Just say Screw it! life is short and better to enjoy the good times while you can. What's to lose? Ya learn, experience and move on to good things. Be a hedonist of life!
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I think its totally normal to feel the need to want to hid what is going on with us, but as Dan said, Honesty is the best. That doesn't mean its the first thing you have to always talk about with them. It will come up and you will know when its time to tell them. Trust in yourself. The right person won't care, and will know who you really are inside! :) Love ya girlie hugs
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You should be open with them. Honesty is the key to any relationship. If this person in worth your time and actually wants to be a part of your life, they need to want to be with YOU. All of you.
It will bite you in the ass if you don't say something now.
Just my .02
Trust that you are a good person and they know this.
If you are going to date, I'm guessing you'd want to be friends with that person? Many people keep friends and lovers separate. I never would. I am dating my best friend and have been for 8 years. He knows me, he knows my stuff, including my various conditions and disorders. And he genuinely loves me. Probably better than anyone I could hope to meet outside of that. :) Besides, if you can't tell the person you like who you really are, do you really want to be with him?
GoddessFourWinds 3 years ago
You know how the song goes; how can we be lovers if we can't be friends...
librarising79 3 years ago