Love Issues#1 Do you Forgive a Cheater?

1) I weigh in on forgiveness of Cheaters
2) Do people try hard enough to keep a relationship?

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• Bigzo20
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[thefirstladyofhtown]

lol luv u zo,

[BigZo20]

Thanks sweetie I love you too.

[xxCCWxxPRODUCTIONSxx]

if it was planned hell naw i dont care if you tell me and you deeply sorry you better run cause you will het hurt. i think forgive someone if it was like an out of a moment thing cause sometimes temptation gets the better of you but to get my forgiveness they gonna have to work their ass off for like a year

and i was watching the today show one day and there was this study basically saying humans are animals and that its natural for them to want to have more than one mate

[BigZo20]

LOL you crazy girl Ready to commit a damn Felony LMAO LOL

[dowutado]

Yes and No. The only reason I would stay with a cheater is kids. If I was married with kids, I would stick it out untill they were 18. Any other situation the answer is no. I am a guy, I dont cuss at my girl, i dont hit her, and i would never cheat on her. I love her and respect her and she returns it. Cheating to me is unexcusable and doent "just happen"

[BigZo20]

Even then I think that you may have to view the situation before you make a firm decision you know. But You might be right.

[mrskraatz]

Hey Big Zo I think you need to have your own talk show because you are insightful. I would watch because you really have me thinking after watching that. To comment on your video I have been with my man going on two years and we are engaged to be married. I am in love with him and believe he is my soul mate so if he was to ever cheat I would make his life a living hell for a while and then forgive because I am willing to go thru anything and everything for us and our relationship.

[719kai719]

I want to say no..but I have been told to never say never , because you don't know what you will do until you are in that situation. More likely than not the answer is NO.If I am in what is supposed to be a committed relationship with you and you step outside of that relationship to hook up with someone else..HELL NO! WHY?Well for me the trust will have been destroyed..and a relationship without trust is on sinking sand. Sinking sand is a weak foundation.You can not build anything solid upon it.

[ghoku14]

,I DON'T BELIEVE IN FORGIVING CHEATERS BUT JUST GOT TIRED OF THINKING BEING CHEATED ON AND ONE BIG FACTOR IS IF YOU ALREADY HAVE INNOCENT KIDS THAT SURELY WILL BE AFFECTED.. SO I LET IT PASSED,ANYONE WHO SAYS THE THEY STILL HAVE THE 100% TRUST AND CONFIDENT IS HYPOCRITICAL THINKING ,,I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT EVERY VICTIM WHO'S BEING CHEATED ON HAS THE RIGHT TO GET EVEN WHEN THE RIGHT PLACE AND TIME COMES,,"THIS IS WHAT I CALLED JUSTICE AND LEVELING THE PLAYING FIELD"!!

[XBlackWolf10]

i never did forgive myself for cheating on my love

[srzman1]

The trust is broken so thats it. Just like if a guy hits you he does it once it will happen again don't give anyone the power over you. Your gut feeling is mostly right.listen to you not friends or family, you have to make the choice. Like when you take a multipe choice test in school your 1st guess is usually right. When someone cheats on you and if you take them back before ya "Do it" get tested Men and Women, just like ya tell youth to do the same. Practice what you preach, Lead by Example.

[srzman1]

There should be no excuse for cheating, ex: being drunk, ish happens etc. You know what your doing. "... Baby I'm sorry" 'o.K. I'm sorry too for puting up with you.' Its like you condone it happening. You can forgive but you don't have to be hurt more by being with someone selfish.

[BlueGuru11]

I've been the perp in the spontaneous area, and I've also been the victim of the affair, all in the SAME relationship. Mine was earlier, and confessed, hers was 2.5 years later and she got caught. I can say it was my Karma, but I even told her I would have taken it better if it was a single night of stupidity. I believe I was in a better situation to be forgiven. Both were wrong, but there's different types of murder as well.

[BlueGuru11]

Agree completely. If you're lying to get it over time, you've completely disregarded moments of lucidity and the human conscience several times. It's 2010, you don't have to be in a relationship. People need to practice introspection with a bit of reality to see if they are fit for relationships before they put themselves in danger, and break hearts.

[kenyamenya1]

well i have a question 4 u what do you do if you with some one and pregnant and he cheats on you and she turns up pregnant too..please respond