Pam Spaulding of Pam's House Blend visits the CHHS GSA, Chapel Hill, NC 10/13/2008. Chapel Hill High School senior Kat Gipson shares her personal story of being gay-bashed in school; it forced her out of the closet to her parents, and spurred her to join the GSA. My post on it is here: http://www.pamshouseblend.com/showDiary.do?diaryId=7568. The transcript:
Pam Spaulding: Tell me now, what was the incident that made you want to join the GSA?
Kat Gipson: When I was in tenth grade, I had a girlfriend and we had been dating for about 3 months. It was fine until, in the hallway I started getting comments- I would just hear them over my shoulder- quick words like, you know, like "effing lesbian", or "we don't need people like you at our school" or "you need to, like...". Just random things regarding my sexuality and threats.
I actually got a death threat at one point, right in front of the administrator's office, so every time I would turn around really quickly and no one would be there. Because it would be like, in a crowded hall of students, and I just wouldn't see anybody. Or I would see people walking away. And... so... this went on for awhile, about 2 weeks, and there were several incidents.
And then there was one day that I left a class early because I asked if I could go to the bathroom and my teacher said, "Just take your stuff and just go ahead" so it was right before the bell rang. And I was coming out of my bathroom, the bathroom, and I was walking this way. And as I was turning, I saw out of the corner of my eye, just figures, I mean they all had their hoods up and I was like, "Whatever"...
Pam Spaulding: The sweat hoodies?
Kat Gipson: "They're just coming out of class; it's not a big deal."
I turned and started walking down the hall and then I started hearing footsteps, like RUNNING, and I turned around really quick, and someone grabbed the side of my face, and slammed me into a locker, and I had a group of people around me, just pushing me, like continuously into a locker, saying stuff like, "Fag", "Lesbian", like, "Get out of our school", all these different things like...
I just curled up in a ball and covered up my head, because at that point I just didn't care who it was, right then. I was just like, "Don't hurt me". And then the bell rang. And they all just got up and ran down the hall.
And at that moment I was so terrified that I was shaking and I got my stuff- I got up and I went to my teacher, who I trusted alot, and told her. She took me immediately to Mr. Herseburger, and he took us directly to the security. The administrator didn't do anything, um, throughout the entire time, nothing-
Pam Spaudling: Did your parents speak to them?
Kat Gipson: My parents spoke to them; they came in and this was when I was, when I had to come out to my parents, because it was a legal issue. And so um, I did have to tell them, you know, "So, hi guys... A- I got beat up at school and B- I'm gay, by the way, that's why".
And so they came in- we had this huge conference, with like my counselors and the security guard. We looked over the surveillance tapes, um, we couldn't actually see- there wasn't a tape of them beating up, but we could see behind me in the hallways. And I would turn around really quickly. And I'd say, "Right there. Right there. That's the person." But we never caught their faces.
So this went on for 2 weeks, maybe, with people like reviewing tapes, and, but during this time my parents wrote several letters to the administration, came in several different times to talk to our head principal, who is no longer our principal, and um, nothing happened regarding that.
And after a little while, they had a police (officer) following me to my classrooms, at a distance, um, just to see if it happened again and it didn't. So after that, it just kinda faded away into nothing.
Pam Spaulding: And no one came forward to say that they did it, no one identified who had...
Kat Gipson: Nope, nope.
Pam Spaudling: And the investigation went nowhere.
And for folks out there, this is why we need an anti-bullying bill passed in this state.
Kat Gipson: Yes, yes.
Pam Spaulding: Thanks!
Homophobia is so stupid!
TRUTHisOUTthere100 2 years ago 17
this is sooo sad, dont let them get to you girl!
Anonimuss22222 2 years ago 13