Being Revictimized At 56 For Speaking Out About My Experience part 2

They say I started the war. I destroyed the family. I did it all. They would all be fine if I had never returned to NY.
Really?
My therapist told me all it took was for me to drive across the state line into Chautauqua County.
That is what I did to start the vengeance and meanness heaped on a few of my sisters and myself.
But now it is time to fight back.
This is not my end, but a new beginning.

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[janeeniegranniebebop]

incestrecovery, if i could turn back the clock and choose rejection or to speak, with the knowledge I have now intact, I would choose to speak.

However, my choice after the rejection was to bow low and get back in my place as baby of the family. That is like returning a pickle to a cucumber. Or to be me.

You are not alone, and you have strength and courage to get you through.

There are no easy choices.

thank you so for sharing your story with me.

[incestrecovery]

I am so sorry you are having to deal with this grief. They are typical sociopathic narcissistic personalities. Your courage to speak up is so important. I'm glad you are choosing to live your life.