Fallen in Need vs. Fallen in Love

http://www.tamiclose.com When we're pure love, true love, we don't need anything from anyone.

What a journey to learn about true love. We have often heard that word "unconditional," and through our journey we will uncover what it truly means for us.

Unconditional is a definition that basically says, "There are no conditions placed on you." With this said, how many of us are experiencing unconditional love? I am experiencing this more and more, and am still learning about it through placing conditions on others. I am so grateful for all the synchronistic people who have stuck by me, and who continue to stick by me so that I may learn. Awakening is always a process of unfolding, and we wouldn't have it any other way :).

In the video I read an excerpt from an anonymous person, and wanted to capture it here in written form:

"Love is the free exercise of choice. Two people love each other when they are quite capable of living without each other, but choose to live with each other. Do not mistake love for need, as love does not need or require validation for its existence. Therefore, love does not have attachments or agendas.

Most have not yet fallen in love; they have only fallen in need -- need to be heard, need to be validated, need to feel secure, and need to feel loved.

True love can only be experienced when you no longer need to be loved because you have completed yourself with your inner love that you have become one with. Only then can you experience being in true love. Because you no longer need the other person, and that is when you can truly love and respect the other person for who they are, not for what you need them to be so you may feel loved."

Beautiful, isn't it?

Just be aware on your journey when you are fallen in need, and simply witness it. Then you allow the love to flow from that aspect who is noticing to the one who is in need. It's all in us for the essence of love to be explored. Thus, look at it like an adventure :).

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• Louise Hay
• The View
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