Self-Forgiveness: learn to forGIVE yourself

Why and how self-forgiveness is the best tool to correct oneself and stop the same mistakes/self-dishonesties over and over again... Do it to yourself, for yourself.

Learn how to forgive yourself:
http://desteni.co.za/faq#32

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[JoeRezac005]

I don't like who I am and I have tried to forgive myself but the the harder I tried the more it made me realize that the only reason why I can stay strong when most will break down and simply hope for mercy is because I hold on to every thing that hurt me reminding me not to screw up or give in to anything that would bring me lower than I already consider myself. Nice hat by the way.

[JoanaFerreiraAsLife]

@JoeRezac005 resistance to forgive oneself is common,because you are dealing with your mind consciousness system of habits,past,memories,feelings,­education,influences,emotions,­patterns,etc. You must realize that we are here to stop such limitations. Self-judgement is only in your mind, thus you are responsible and able to stop and give yourself the opportunity to exist as LIFE as who you really are! You will have to face yourself, just like everyone is (The Desteni forum is very supportive)

[JoanaFerreiraAsLife]

@JoeRezac005 It is a process, step by step, breath by breath.

Take yourself easy while trusting yourself. Who made you believe that you were lower (compared to who?). Self-Forgiveness is the best tool for you to let go of self-definitions.Free yourself from the time-loop and Be Here as breath. What I see is that you don't like your personality.So let it go through self-forgiveness.It does not hurt to forgive -- it is indeed very intensive,you may cry. Embrace yourself. Let's all start again

[MrVegiita]

Well said. But how do you forgive yourself?

[JoanaFerreiraAsLife]

@MrVegiita You forgive yourself in Self-Honesty.A great tool is to write self-forgiveness, where you open up your points without self-judgements. Any thought that pops up your forgive -everything you have become (thoughts, ideas,definitions, fears, comparisons, missed-takes)."I forgive myself for having accepted and allowed myself for....." you can say it out loud which is very supportive.Basically, you are speaking with yourself in self-direction to stop, breathe, LET GO. And start living here

[MrVegiita]

@JoanaFerreiraAsLife Thank you Joana... forgiveness is something i wasn't aware of... until earlier this year.. wasn't able to forgive a lot of mistakes I made over the years... still struggling to forgive... i guess it takes time.

[JoanaFerreiraAsLife]

@MrVegiita Forgiving Self takes self-direction and self-will :) it's amazing to see the resistances that I have when applying self-forgiveness on points that I simply accepted even thought weren't the best for me (nor for others). Breathe and become equal to everything and everyone, to finally See, no judgements.This way one is able to decide "No, this is not how I want to participate in this world".Embrace yourself as you are the solution for yourself.One must stand up and undo what has allowed

[JoanaFerreiraAsLife]

@saggsman hi!glad this supported you to realise your projections. Relationships are a huge mind construct itself -- reactions and expectations that are never about "the other" but a projections of what goes inside. Self-forgiveness supports oneself to be self-honest, realise the patterns, stand equal to the other person and finally change the outcome. This way you are able to trust yourself knowing that you're directing yourself in the moment for the best of you and for the best of the other.

[saggsman]

Hey there, interesting subject you covered on forgiveness, I happened to let go a bitter feeling I had over an ex and even though I had the right to feel upset i shouldn't have let my emotions get the better of me and take it out on her. i think now i can understand that and realize that I can be a better person than I was previously. If this applies to what you're saying then I'm glad I watched this video knowing that my conscience is clear again

[KissezFromMaggieMae]

This video is so relaxing especially with the background of nature all around. Great job