Dan Savage on A Guy in His 40s that Hasn't Had Sex in 8 Years
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havent had sex in 16 years....
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Wooo GO IU!!!
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if you miss having sex, so its a problem, but if you tend to be more assexual and doesnt mind living without it, there is no problem.
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@oscrthgrch7 if you dont ask a lady to meet up with you then a lady will never know you wanted her to meet you
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I'm 46, the last time I got lucky I was 23. Of course I'm depressed, who wouldn't be? I don't think anyone I'd be interested in would be interested in me. I wish I were dead.
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I'm in my 40s and I have never had sex. Sex seems like it has no substance to me now. Storks and cabbage patch kids seem to be as likely causes for babys. I know in reality this isn't true, but I feel I don't have an oppertunity to know what being sexual is about.
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@yunikage You sound perfectly normal to me :) I don't know all the details, but I'd say if you're not "feeling the detrement" as it were, you have no reason to TRY to have sex. It's a big misconception in society that psychologists say that sex is needed for a healthy mind. It IS needed, but not every weekend xD I'd say if you get into a decade without having sex, start worrying :P
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Lol, Dan is hilarious
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I haven't had sex in 3 years. Mainly because my standards are "too high". Basically I'm someone who looks average who isn't attracted to other average looking people. I'd rather not get laid than sleep with people who don't do it for me. Some people would get desperate and lower their standards, but for whatever reason I don't. It doesn't really bother me that much. I get horny, but I don't get lonely.
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@honeyxbee18 If you have the need to be picky you haven't been without sex long enough.
Women, fair warning: get a tetanus shot before he sticks you with that rusty thing.
valkerian 2 years ago 36
I haven't had sex for 6 years, one gets used to it...
FluidDeconstructor 2 years ago 30