Many children believe that they had something to do with the divorce. They may remember times when they argued with their parents, did not live up to expectations, or got in trouble. They may associate that conflict with their parents' conflict and blame themselves. Also, some children may worry that their parents will stop loving them, or that they will never see one of their parents. Sometimes young children do not understand the meaning and permanence of divorce.
Treat your child's confusion or misunderstandings with patience. Reassure your child that you both will continue to love them and that they are not responsible for the divorce. Gently clarify any misunderstandings about the custody arrangements.
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