Re: Are you Resentful When you Lose Weight

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[AztekFreak0105]

I want you to know, that you're a beautiful women.

You don't want to disappear, You have a wonderful soul to want to share this. I have family members who struggle with their weight, and they let it effect them, Just do what you want to do to be happy.

I love your hair! I love your eyes! You're lovely. :)

(your points are valid, I totally agree with you)

[diggs1976]

Thanks Aztek. Thank-you.

[bluewren2]

What is it you resent the fact that people remember you used to be fat?Remind you of it? Or think you still need to lose weight?

If YOU thought you were ok fat then why did you go to the trouble of losing weight?

[diggs1976]

Blue, I never thought I was okay at 360 pounds. I don't care what people think and thats why it bothers me to hear comments, get a life people and leave me alone!!!! thats what I want to say.

[bluewren2]

Well if you put it all out here do you not expect people to comment?Why do you do it? Just curious.?

[diggs1976]

I do expect comments. I don't mind answering, I think this topic is just hard for me to explain to you. Sorry I cannot satisfy your interest.

[diggs1976]

Losing weight is personal. Not up for public discussion in my books. some may not. some may love it. I don't comment on an alcoholics status, drinking or not, fallen off the wagon again, or not. to me same thing. its addiction. I understand the thinking involved for someone making comments or 'compliments' about my body. and until someone has been in my shoes they will not understand. I hope I have shed a bit of light on what its like to be me, because you seem really interested.

[100poundsin2010]

Great video :D

[hislivingsacrifice]

You are so sweet and beautiful!! I like what you say to people when you notice they've lost weight. I'm going to remember that the next time I notice someone who has lost weight. Thank you.

[AztekFreak0105]

My name is James ;)

And you're welcome!

[bluewren2]

With all due respect this topic does not make sense to me.How would people who hardly know you know what sort of a persony you were anyway.

Maybe they think that if you went to the trouble of losing all that weight you might appreciate being complimented on it.?

It takes committment will power and quite an effort . People may be tactless but they are not all necessarily mean..