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Uploaded by on Feb 11, 2011

http://beyourbrilliantbest.com
Enza has a specialty interest in the study and understanding of toxic, abusive and dysfunctional behaviours and dynamics, and how they affect individuals, their relationship with themselves and others.

She has an in-depth knowledge, study and experience on the subject of toxic relationships, verbal abuse and abuse dynamics. Enza utilises the conventional characteristics of mainstream psychology/counselling, as well as the unique perceptive observation of NLP techniques to create shifts and changes in situational dynamics. Combining all of these techniques propels changes and outcomes.

Have you ever been with someone, they've told you that they care about you and then said or have done something that literally made you feel uneasy, get a sick feeling in your stomach, but not knowing why you were reacting to them like that? Well, you may have been exposed to a toxic/abusive behaviour or comment. If left unaddressed being around people like this can lower your self esteem, make you doubt yourself and abilities, cause confusion, pain, no motivation. Understanding the signs of toxic and abusive behaviour, and then knowing how to respond or remove yourself from it, is one of the most empowering situational behaviour awareness tools to have. Becoming empowered and aware of how you feel and how others behave is key to healing. With that awareness you then need some strategies to get over the aftermath of toxic behaviour and abuse. I can help you achieve this.

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To provide a safe haven of understanding, caring, validation, tools and strategies to clients to create a life of meaning and amazing transformation to live a truly full life. To aid achieving excellence in every area of your life.

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  • It is best to set boundaries around bullies and abusers.

  • What a great question. The answer may be a bit more complex though. The issue with bullies is usually they don’t know they are bullies.

  • It’s usually not within their conscious awareness.

  • And when we try and make them aware that they are being bullies or bullying, usually they ‘attack’ by being defensive.

  • Some suggestions would be to either tell the bully that they’ve said or done something abusive and ask them to stop doing that.

  • If they listen to you and stop doing the abusive bullying behaviour, good. 

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  • This video is my married life with my wife. wow.

  • But if they don’t listen to you and keep doing the bullying behaviour then you need to disengage, which means to remove yourself from spending time with them to protect yourself from further abuse.

  • How to I make the bully aware he's a bully?

  • Thank you. Glad that you find the information is good. We appreciate your feedback and take it into consideration.

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