http://beyourbrilliantbest.com
Enza has a specialty interest in the study and understanding of toxic, abusive and dysfunctional behaviours and dynamics, and how they affect individuals, their relationship with themselves and others.
She has an in-depth knowledge, study and experience on the subject of toxic relationships, verbal abuse and abuse dynamics. Enza utilises the conventional characteristics of mainstream psychology/counselling, as well as the unique perceptive observation of NLP techniques to create shifts and changes in situational dynamics. Combining all of these techniques propels changes and outcomes.
Have you ever been with someone, they've told you that they care about you and then said or have done something that literally made you feel uneasy, get a sick feeling in your stomach, but not knowing why you were reacting to them like that? Well, you may have been exposed to a toxic/abusive behaviour or comment. If left unaddressed being around people like this can lower your self esteem, make you doubt yourself and abilities, cause confusion, pain, no motivation. Understanding the signs of toxic and abusive behaviour, and then knowing how to respond or remove yourself from it, is one of the most empowering situational behaviour awareness tools to have. Becoming empowered and aware of how you feel and how others behave is key to healing. With that awareness you then need some strategies to get over the aftermath of toxic behaviour and abuse. I can help you achieve this.
Mission Statement
To provide a safe haven of understanding, caring, validation, tools and strategies to clients to create a life of meaning and amazing transformation to live a truly full life. To aid achieving excellence in every area of your life.
Thank you.
BeYourBrilliantBest.com
It is best to set boundaries around bullies and abusers.
beyourbrilliantbest 10 months ago
What a great question. The answer may be a bit more complex though. The issue with bullies is usually they don’t know they are bullies.
beyourbrilliantbest 10 months ago
It’s usually not within their conscious awareness.
beyourbrilliantbest 10 months ago
And when we try and make them aware that they are being bullies or bullying, usually they ‘attack’ by being defensive.
beyourbrilliantbest 10 months ago
Some suggestions would be to either tell the bully that they’ve said or done something abusive and ask them to stop doing that.
beyourbrilliantbest 10 months ago
If they listen to you and stop doing the abusive bullying behaviour, good.
beyourbrilliantbest 10 months ago