Dating Advice : Dating a Bisexual

Dating a bisexual requires a person to relinquish judgment and jealousy in order to approach the relationship from a clear headed mindset. Learn how to date someone that's bisexual with tips from the author of a book on dating in this free video on relationship advice.

Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn
Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com
Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. Vehorn wrote "Dynamic Dating" and "Boomer Girls, a Woman's Guide to Men & Dating."
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz

Category:

Howto & Style

Tags:

• dating
• interpersonal
• relationships
• love

[AkumaXKami]

This video is stupid. A bisexual individual doesn't usually date two different people at the same time. Sure, they are attracted to both men and women, but the same dating principles still apply. You only date one person at a time. Otherwise it's just polygamy.

[chado2423]

This video is completely terribly, and i say it deserves a bozo button for being the dumbest bisexual advice video ever made!

[xjedixwarriorx]

@Nodrog666 I know exactly how you feel.  When I date a guy my lesbian friends say I'm in denial of being a lesbian, and when I date a girl my straight friends say I'm in denial of being hetero. I'm 22 years old and I've know I was bi since I was 3 years old. If anything, I'm in denial of having way too many judgmental friends. Such is life right?

[Nodrog666]

@xjedixwarriorx I can speak for the men. :P I'm a very monogamous bisexual male. In fact, the very idea of sex with more than one person makes me uncomfortable.

Bisexuals never seem able to win. I am currently in a loving 3 year relationship with a female. According to a lot of gays I'm a coward who's hiding in the safety of heterosexuality. If I end up dating a man, I'm too scared to admit I'm gay.

But it's okay jediwarrior. You and I can not exist together. ; )

[xjedixwarriorx]

Wow...I'm a monogamous bisexual...this guy makes me sound like I don't exist. Most bisexual women are monogamous in my experience...I can't speak for the men, but I imagine it wouldn't be very different for them.

[tom2433]

lmao @ this guy claiming to give dating advice when he doesn't know what the @*&$ he's talking about...

[sillykatz]

@ABH1212 also don't drink wine and act like hugh hefner, i don't know how his other videos are but seriously he is acting like being bi or being with somebody who is bi is like being in a 24/7 orgy swing fest! annoying!

[xandriathegreat]

This is offensive, ignorant, nauseating, painful, pathetic, infuriating, wrong and it isn't even well spoken.

Please, just please....

[davemalta93]

Seriously??!! I'm bisexual myself but :

1) i don't have std's for being bi,

2) When i date, i never date someone whilst i'm with someone else,

3) why should anyone ever be in a relationship whilst his/ her partner is having a sexual life with someone else?

Note: being bisexual doesn't nessecarily mean that one likes both sexes equally but there is a percentage scale of sexual attraction. (Example my attraction to males is approx. 40%, and to females is approx. 60%).

[ABH1212]

Ok, here's a little tip for you Dr. Paul: Before you make a video where you give your highly valued, well informed opinion on how to date a bisexual, how about you find out what 'bisexual' means first ;). Because otherwise, you might just make yourself look like a complete idiot :D

[TheBassHeavy]

This has to be a joke.

[WormyBoySquigle]

"Biseshual"

But seriously, what the hell is this?