my frind had been ill with her heart she got a transplant that didnt work and for over 3 weeks was on life support we were warned she may die but we hoped shed live but when death cafe i felt id been punched in the gut i was phycically sick and now im feeling numb
i lost my good friend and neighbour only yestarday so just now im really thinking its a bad dream it hasent sunk in yet and im dreading the next few weeks and the funirals gonna be hell just now im watching videos of our favorite pop bands but i keep thinking shell come bouncing in the door singing along with them but i have been through greif before first is disbeleif theirn the pain then anger then intime you slowly move on but never forgetting that person
Any1 noticed that takes a long time 4 anger 2 kick in, I come from Northumberland,England, lost wife of 10 years, 6 years ago, & a Fiance b4, whom commited suicide. My 2 beautiful nieces lost their mum from extremely rare cancer. 6 daughters have lost their mum, yet it's took me, because we R the men we have 2 keep it 2gether 4everyone sake & sometimes we just can't, it's took a good 6 years b4 the anger has started 2 rise, has anyone else had anger problems a long time after the bereavement?
ya i understand that hole thing i was really bad when i lost my dad i was 7 years old and a doctor told me that he died and was not coming back nice right?? and it was not good for my brother too he was 5 at the time when th doctor told us both, my family kinda sperated some what at that time :/ it was a killer back than
My lovely husband passed last Christmas at age 54. He had cancer and we didn't know until 3 weeks before. I brought him home. And I saw him talking to someone, laughing and joking. The next day, he left. If you've ever seen anyone 'die', it's exactly like discarding an old set of clothing. 'He' was no longer there. I miss him so much, every day, even though I know he didn't 'end' and will see him again.
A few days ago, a friend online told me about how his friend's brother died in a bike accident. He was twelve... I would like to remind you all that grief is a byproduct of attachment. Attachment is a gamble; it can provide pleasure of pain, depending on what happens after you 'roll the die', so to speak.
What is bereavement????
TheBully071997 4 weeks ago
my frind had been ill with her heart she got a transplant that didnt work and for over 3 weeks was on life support we were warned she may die but we hoped shed live but when death cafe i felt id been punched in the gut i was phycically sick and now im feeling numb
freacls 8 months ago
i lost my good friend and neighbour only yestarday so just now im really thinking its a bad dream it hasent sunk in yet and im dreading the next few weeks and the funirals gonna be hell just now im watching videos of our favorite pop bands but i keep thinking shell come bouncing in the door singing along with them but i have been through greif before first is disbeleif theirn the pain then anger then intime you slowly move on but never forgetting that person
freacls 8 months ago
Any1 noticed that takes a long time 4 anger 2 kick in, I come from Northumberland,England, lost wife of 10 years, 6 years ago, & a Fiance b4, whom commited suicide. My 2 beautiful nieces lost their mum from extremely rare cancer. 6 daughters have lost their mum, yet it's took me, because we R the men we have 2 keep it 2gether 4everyone sake & sometimes we just can't, it's took a good 6 years b4 the anger has started 2 rise, has anyone else had anger problems a long time after the bereavement?
christianlennon1979 8 months ago
ya i understand that hole thing i was really bad when i lost my dad i was 7 years old and a doctor told me that he died and was not coming back nice right?? and it was not good for my brother too he was 5 at the time when th doctor told us both, my family kinda sperated some what at that time :/ it was a killer back than
leonbats190 8 months ago
grief is painful. too lose a parent is the worst. i was never the same after my dad died.
barbaras1948 1 year ago
My lovely husband passed last Christmas at age 54. He had cancer and we didn't know until 3 weeks before. I brought him home. And I saw him talking to someone, laughing and joking. The next day, he left. If you've ever seen anyone 'die', it's exactly like discarding an old set of clothing. 'He' was no longer there. I miss him so much, every day, even though I know he didn't 'end' and will see him again.
carriemaizey 1 year ago
A few days ago, a friend online told me about how his friend's brother died in a bike accident. He was twelve... I would like to remind you all that grief is a byproduct of attachment. Attachment is a gamble; it can provide pleasure of pain, depending on what happens after you 'roll the die', so to speak.
Kelarre653 1 year ago
@Viczxxandkirsty I believe you! I write songs that mean a lot to me and do not care what anyone else thinks because I know!!!
strongtheme 1 year ago
@moonlightowl1 mine also.
mertygurl 1 year ago