genderlessness

stream of thoughts on gender and how it fits in the queer community.

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[Sarusource]

We are just what we are. If you walk into a toilet and somebody asks you what your 'gender' is, why not tell them. 'I have female biology(as far as I know).' You might even add that 'I prefer to act like a boy sometimes because I feel like one sometimes'. You might even add that you are atracted to women sometimes. There really is no problem for people who know that 'I am what I am.'

[openheartzoo]

@Sarusource It would be ideal if I could say all that, but it's just not safe where I live, I'd really be asking for trouble.

[ToxicOdiousOne]

Tranny don't mock gender. Biology is destiny. We are not genderless. We don't belong to some Earth cult religion.

[openheartzoo]

spot the ignoramus. thanks for reading the title of one of my videos and then commenting. sorry pal, but gender and sex/biology are different things. do a spot of research. bye now.

[ToxicOdiousOne]

@openheartzoo Girls act femine. Boys act masculine. Where's the confusion tranny?

[openheartzoo]

There's no confusion. Most cisgendered girls act feminine and most cisgendered boys act masculine and both this, and the thought that this is "destiny" are a result of social conditioning. My gender transgresses that social conditioning, ergo, I am transgender, or more specifically, genderqueer. More importantly, I am not a threat to cisgender identities, which I find perfectly acceptable. So using "tranny" in a derogatory way is quite unnecessary.

[BearGirl26]

So sad that there's prejudice even within the LGBT community. Biphobia and transphobia are disgusting. >.>

[blinkme478]

@ToxicOdiousOne You're an ignorant twat. I actually cannot believe that people still think that way.

[DarkAngel0125]

I get that. I'm not always comforable with genderqueer. Queer, sure. 'Cause my gender is odd, but I'm not half and half or 80%/20% or anything like that. I'm not a "butch" or a "femme". I'm just... blah. But not in a bland way. In an indefinite way, or an ineffable way. I know what I feel, there are just no words for it. Why should there have to be words for gender? Why can't gender just be fluid and versatile and nameless? Why must people be treated like soup cans that need to be labled?

[samantha041508]

I loved your video !!! great job... also I agree with you about being genderless I do not know how to put a name on what I am and Have been looking into it to really get a educated idea...but honestly why dose it matter ?? this is what I got from your video..

[BonesDGAF021]

so my buddy andrewkiwi said you spin poi?! do you have any vids?

[assemblyassembly]

Hey. I'm in no position to answer your question but i do want to address people asking you if you're a boy or a girl. It happens to me quite a lot and I try not giving them an answer as much as I can. I don't really have an answer for them and their confusion about my gender is a small price to pay. They can work around me, I don't have to work around them... so yeah, I usually don't answer or ask them something like "what's it to you?" . They don't need to know, I'm just walking to the store

[Topherkline]

i have been an unedcauted. on the aspects of my own life until very recently when my wife left me.... but i am intersexed and "bi" best way for words.. i consider myself with out gender. but i grew up mormon annd i just act the way i was raised.. i generaly talk one way "it makes other people feel ok to be around me" when people show that they actually care and want to get to know me then i will talk about my xxy and klinefelters and my sexuality.. and all that