如果不再說"如果" (Part 1)

達致成功tips #1:不再說"如果我有了錢，咁我就....."暢銷書《Are You Ready to Succeed》作者Prof‭ ‬Srikumar RAO教你如何找快樂

Prof Srikumar RAO
Author of International bestseller Are You Ready to Succeed

Stressed that no matter how hard you try, you cannot change things? When will is not enough, you need insight and techniques. Adapting eastern philosophy to the contemporary world, Prof RAO has designed the "Creativity and Personal Mastery" course to help people examine themselves and master their circumstances. The course has run at many of the top business schools in the world but is relevant to to a far broader audience. By design, the course starts you on a journey of growth to which there is no end.

Srikumar Rao 教授
暢銷書《Are You Ready to Succeed》作者（美國）

無論你怎樣努力，也沒法改變現狀？盡了力也解決不到問題時，你需要新的思維及技巧。RAO教授融匯東方哲學，設計了"創意與自我超越"課程，助人剖 釋自我，主宰機遇。課程被多間頂尖商學院採用，內容卻遠超商業﹣﹣它讓你展開一個無終止的成長旅程。


About this Talk

Prof RAO lays out a vision for the audience: a future when the mess made by the previous generation will be cleared up by a generation of young people. This generation is radiantly alive, has a deep sense of purpose, and live each and every day with gratitude.Prof RAO believes that happiness is an integral part of life. People can always be okay and never be not okay -- because being happy is hard wired and is in everyone's very nature. We are unhappy because we waste our lives learning to be unhappy.The cause of unhappiness is the "if, then" model. An example of the "if,then" model is "if I have money, career, love, etc, then I will be happy". This model is wrong. Instead of depending on the "if", Prof RAO suggests that we should accept the world as it is. Then our habitual wanting self drops.Professor RAO believes we should find happiness in the process but not the outcome. Results should not be the source of happiness, and the outcome, which is beyond our control, should not be the basis of happiness.Professor RAO ends his talk with meditation -- a reminder that happiness does not depend on things on the outside, but between one's ears.

演講簡介

RAO教授分享了一個願景：在未來，上一代造成的混亂將被年輕一代處理妥當。青年人快樂地活著，有明確的目標，滿心感激地過每一天。RAO教授相信快樂本來就是生命的一部­份。快樂是天生的，是每個人的天性。我們不快樂，只是因為我們總是在學習不快樂。人們不快樂，是因為用了"如果，那麼"的思維模式。比如"如果我有了錢、事業、愛情等，那­麼我就會快樂"。這種思維模式是錯的。RAO教授建議，與其指望"如果"，我們不如接受這世界的本來面目。這樣我們就不會想得到一切，不會不滿足。RAO教授認為，我們不­應只想結果，而應從過程中找尋快樂，我們不應將希望寄託於結果之上，結果不是我們可以控制的，所以它不應是快樂的基礎。最後RAO教授帶領大家冥想—快樂並非來自外在，而­是源自我們的內心。

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@missPi Hi there, you can check them out at MaD Talk 2010－Prof‭ ‬Srikumar RAO: Are You Ready to Succeed? (Part 2) and MaD Talk 2010－Prof‭ ‬Srikumar RAO: Are You Ready to Succeed? (Part 3)

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please share with us part two of the video too :)