Emotional Vampires: Saying Goodbye to Toxic Friends

In this video you will learn some methods on how to end a friendship with a toxic friend or coworker. Understanding that energy is what they feed on you will come to discover that indifference and being firm will win you back your peace and sanity.
Video 1: " The Dance"
Video 2: " Saying Goodbye to Toxic Friends" how to rid yourself of that EV friend.
Video 3: " Family, At an Arms Length" how to keep the family EV at Bay
Video 4: " Hit the Road Dracula and Don't Ya Come Back" ending a relationship with the EV in your life
Video 5 " Honey, Please Put The Fangs Away" How to cure the EV in your relationship

Please be sure to let me know what you think of this series. Thank you to everyone for all your support.

Love,

Michelle

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• EV
• Emotional Vampire
• Emotional Vampires
• Toxic Friends
• Toxic people
• toxic family
• indifference
• energy
• narcissistic
• energy draining
• feeding on energy

[town1960]

What if it is your boss? I have had two bosses in a row that are what you described.

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@town1960

Have you seen my video Emotional Vampires : The Dance ? Check it out and then if you still have questions, I would be happy to hear them.

[piloooogen]

Well one week and I have pretty much fixed it I started Monday by telling "this isnt working out". Then I have been around for company of others so that I would be more independent. A tip from me on how to deal with them is to be VERY social no matter what (I´m autistic) EVs doesn't have power on people enjoying each others in group! Thought first week was one of the most draining of all life now I feel pretty secure must NOT let him in for third time....

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@piloooogen

Yeah. Congrads. Thank you for the update. Hope your still sticking to your guns and giving the EV a polite cold shoulder. My best wishes are with you.

Michelle

[Annieob1978]

Then I was able to finally text "we have nothing more to talk about do not contact me again". Needless to say they toxic person kept trying to call then gave up for a couple weeks and then tried again!! I ignored all calls at this point and changed both my house and mobile number!!! this is the short version of a long story but it can be done i just hope she stays away now. Thank you for these videos I watched them for guidance all the way through!

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@Annieob1978

Please let me know how it all turned out. I would also be interested in hearing if the videos help you avoid and EV in your future. Thanks for the support.

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@dontre2333

This is the "dance" we play in our lives. All humans are social creatures and we long for nothing more than to be loved and accepted for who we are so we learn to adapt to meet the needs of others to get the approval we desire, what we don't get taught is that approval from ourselves is truly the most rewarding gift one can give and recieve, thats the dirty secret hidden from us. We are told that is vanity. I call it healthy developement. Good luck your already a step ahead.

[MrTearsintherain]

You are scary accurate!  This is exactly what she is doing!!!

[SHACKTRESS]

here u women... dealing with it now...

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@piloooogen

Please keep me updated. Remember to be consistent and firm with your dealings with any EV.

[piloooogen]

Man o man you really know this!!!!! I own you something if this works.

[rtisleo]

This is good sound advice. Some EV's will insist on pulling you into their drama, even after you clearly have expressed a disinterest.So being firm and saying goodbye and moving on is a wise thing to do.

[JillAngie2]

Wise words and very well thought out and communicated. Thank you for sharing :-)