Per Infantilism/Infantophilism and ABDLs, Who Need Serious and Self-Beneficial Help

I don't buy that most ABDLs/Infantilists/Infantophiliacs weren't seriously, heinously, and unimaginably abused as children or aren't imposing a concious MPD/DID on themselves to try to have or regain childhoods which they never had.

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[natasjaJerjomina]

and btw do research adult baby syndrome is not pedofile there 2 seperate illness that have NOTHING to do with either. its not a sexual disorder at all.

[Nickidewbear]

@natasjaJerjomina I never said that ABDL Syndrome is pedophilia; and I sorrow for all that you've had to suffer.

[LanceHertford]

Also, I don't mean to flood your comments, but when someone says to me "You need some serious professional help!", I say yeah, I wish I could afford it, to be honest. I've always wanted to talk to a therapist about the sexual abuse that happened to me in childhood, and whether or not it's connected to my infantilism. However, it's my understanding that most therapists actually encourage infantilists to engage in their lifestyle, in a healthy, balanced way.

[Nickidewbear]

@LanceHertford I am sorrowed for your situation, and I can tell you that most good therapists would not encourage infantilism. They would encourage you to work through what you can of your situation and effects thereof in this lifetime. Having gone through (though, in many ways, minimal compared to your) suffering, I know that good therapists (having a good therapist myself) would encourage you to talk about your pain, use it for redemption somehow, and not use it in a infantilistic way.

[2evil2]

@Nickidewbear

Let me ask you a few questions

Q1-How would you know anything about my childhood? I barely know you.

Q2- What if you had a kid that is a AB/DL?

Q3- How is it wrong to wear diapers and act like a baby? We aren't harming anyone.

Q4- How are we really hurting children? And if we really "did", we aren't doing it purposely. If we were abused as a kid we would actually have more of an aggressive nature. Like some people have said "who are you to be the judge of that?". Anyway, I

[Nickidewbear]

@2evil2 1) I've answered previously. 2) I would wonder if I and/or anyone else did wrong to my child. 3) I've answered previously. 4) Not all abused kids have an aggressive nature. I was an abused child, and my granddad is an unprosecuted murderer. So, nice try.

[Killman1134]

Me, it just is a secure feeling of not dealing with the horrors of life. Life is truly horrible, even if everything is actually working for you, so this is my way of blocking this life out, and embrace a more peaceful and carefree life. I take it more seriously than most people, I could not care less about what people think anymore. My life is my life.

[natasjaJerjomina]

and yes its100% not sexual, its more of wanting the childhood you never had

[natasjaJerjomina]

yes i was abused at 5 and since them i was always going backwards not forward, im 20 but i look about 16 and its very hard to live a life witout people making you feel bad abnout the way u behave, i act like my husbands a parent and he goes along with it and finds its cute most time but when hes not in the mood he reminds me of my age and tells me grow up and it leads me to depression, i suffer from bipolar disorder so it maakes it so much harder o deal with cause people judge mental health

[LanceHertford]

@Nickidewbear Also, infantilism is NOT an "alternative to infantophilia". I don't even know where to begin to explain. I understood where the confusion comes, but you're judging us from outwardly associated things (diapers) and assuming they're the same thing. We are not pedophiles, and we don't fantasize about sexually abusing children AT ALL. Like I said, when my dad assumed that, I was completely confused at first. I had never thought of it as being related. You'd have to be one to get it.

[LanceHertford]

@Nickidewbear That's actually been the most awkward part in talking to my parents about this. I know my mom thinks she did something wrong, and she didn't. Even worse, I was afraid she would think this was some kind of attraction to her, or my dad would. It's not. And my dad? When he found out, it took me a long time to figure out what he was saying, and then it hit me: "Oh my god! He thinks I'm a pedophile!". It was completely baffling to me that someone would assume they were the same thing.