Pear Shaped Sista, the Side Show Freak

Another grocery store incident sparked this video....To make me smile, E said from now on, we are just going to order our groceries online and have them delivered lolol...

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[THYCHANIE]

@pearshapedsista..my apologies..I was just mad at what you have gone thru..so my thoughts were thrown together..can't email you..computer..messed up..so..viva la mobile..it was a jumbled attempt to basically say..you are alot better than them..if civil rights leaders leaders can get thrash for they're beliefs and how they look..then u can too..it only makes you stronger..

[pearshapedsista]

@THYCHANIE No apology necessary luv. Thank you. I truly appreciate it.

[boycout]

Pear, go about your business and forget what others think. Look at it this way, They're so fascinated by you that they must stop whatever they're doing and stare. I know you'd not think of it as a compliment but in a way it is. Also, DO NOT resort to ordering groceries online because of the stares. So what if you're shaped different, you ARE human after all. Don't let people have you change your lifestyle!

[pearshapedsista]

@boycout Thank you sweetheart. You always have the most positive comments. We are definitely meeting up the next time I come to Trinidad.

[pearshapedsista]

@pierrefourtwenty Thanks luv, I appreciate the way you put it.

[pearshapedsista]

@msjazzietee I remember our convo about her, and I remember what it was like to go through that. It still affects me sometimes, as this video shows. For the most part I just ignore it, but sometimes people can really make me feel uncomfortable...

[msjazzietee]

to see if they are going to look back or make some side comment. I am shapely myself it runs in our family I am an adult and can handle comments & stares but this vid gave me a quick glimpse into some of the things my daughter my be going thru @ school or around her friends. Alot of it is ppl just want what they see & the other part is ppl r just ignorant at times. times.

[msjazzietee]

Watching this vid reminds me of something I commented on with you a long time ago. My daughter is very hippy below and they call her names, say she fat and older guys try to take to her because they think she is fast becasue of her body. I am saying this because she is in the 6th grade & u said you hv had ur shape since the 5th. I ask her all the time if she is comfortable within herself she says yes but when we go to the store & pass by like a group of teenage boys I stand there & watch

[pierrefourtwenty]

@pearshapedsista i think the main thing is to look at the positive side, who wants to be like all the rest? are they anything to go by or look up to? answer: Hell no! if your special and different you've got more in common with e.g. a celebrity. Who must always adjust their lifestyles accordingly so they don't get jumped on by the mob. to keep themselves separate from the average trash

[pearshapedsista]

@LadyDerenne I hope my video helps some one too. I usually just ignore it and keep it moving, but yesterday I just could not. As far as your co worker goes, I don't know how you deal with that. I have had co workers make comments b4, but not tease me in a way that made me feel uncomfortable. I did get the looks from Mr. Creepy though, and it made me feel sooo uncomfortable. Luckily he left. Thanks for the comment luv and I hope you keep your head up too.