Miscarriage - How To Deal With Loss, What Helped/Helps Me, Advice, Ideas & Honesty

In this video I discuss how I deal/t with my miscarriage.

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Much love to anyone who is dealing with pregnancy loss, now and always :(

Obviously everyone copes differently and feels differently about loss. However, this is what helped me (and didn't help me) deal with what was (and still is) the single most difficult thing I've ever been through.

This day, one year ago, I heard the words no Mum-to-be should hear "There is no heartbeat, I'm so sorry" and my whole world changed. We miss you Ollie xxx

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[drpjjl]

Ive very recently miscarried myself and I have to say that i havent come to terms with it at all....i still forget that im no longer pregnant. This video is very inspirational. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

[Racheous]

@drpjjl I'm so sorry. Thinking of you xxx

[AmberMS1204]

When one of my friends came to me after having one I clearly didn't know what she was going through and I was her shoulder to cry on. Then when it happened to me I knew exactly how devastated she was. I've been staying strong, and I finally let my family know, who was very supportive btw. As of now, I plan on waiting about a year then see if I'm ready to try again. I def agree with your video I acted the same way.

[Racheous]

I'm so sorry for your loss, thank you for watching xxx

[hannahmetcher]

This video sums up my experience exactly, and i completely understand how it feels to just crumble sometimes. thankyou so much for sharing, it means alot!

[Racheous]

Thank you so much for watching and I'm sorry that you've felt something similar to me - it's not fair.

[Leahfan310]

Thank you, this helped me alot. I recently experienced a miscarriage. Unfortunately for me I had no one by my side through the pain. My parents weren't even aware I was pregnant. My baby's father has no clue and will most likely never find out either. I blame it all on myself and the stress and emotional pain I was in at the time and that's why no one can know. But this video helps me think that maybe there's hope. My baby girl would have been born this April. But I know she's now looking over

[armywifey91]

Wow. Extreme! Why would you want to have a miscarriage ... that's horrible! You need to go to hell.

[extreme5050]

@drpjjl Does anyone of you have a video tutorial about how to miscarry? I cant find any and I really need to

[amberspry86]

i have had two miscarriages and im still scared from it,and it has to been 2 years from now.this is a great way to help.i have never done this and prouble cant.i have kept this away from everyone cause i got bad feed back from it and my husband just didnt want to hear about it.it seemed like to me.i have not been able to get pregnant since then.im afrade that i will never beable to have a family.thanks to anyone that post these videos.

[sylviakitty222]

Thank you for your video. I found out yesterday after having my first ultra sound that my baby/or fetus, I'm so confused as to what is really going on, had no heartbeat. The ultrasound Tech said there was no baby....just and empty yolk sac (if I"m pronouncing that or spelling that correctly. Devastated is not even close to the amount of suffering I feel 24 hours a day now. So depressed I can hardly function. I'm 38 and this was my first pregnancy. I hurt. I can't really even move.

[ZebraCupcake1280]

I had a stillborn 3days later my sister got married i know how hard it is

[AdRamirez0919]

My baby heart stopped beating at 11 weeks but we didn't discover there was no heart beat until I was 13 weeks. I was devastated and still am, it's only been 2 months. I feel lost & empty inside, I feel like when they took my baby out they took my soul too! I had to have a DC cuz my body just didn't get the fact that the baby wasn't alive anymore. I'm hurting -- & sometimes I feel no one understands that! Thanks you for making this video!

[Kissezgee08]

I could ay I kno exactly how you feel I lost my baby boy when I was 6 months prego an this happened 02022010 last year yes it hurt to lose him when I seen no heart beat on my ultrasound but it hurt more the day me an my bf had a funeral for him.. but they said they found why but til this day I still haven't tried to concieve because I'm scared it could happen again.. but we are planning to try agan sometime this year an I'm sorry gurl..

[donellexrachelle]

I just recently had a miscarriage and me and my boyfriend tried for that baby, and it hurts so bad, it feels like something has been takin from me. I will go somewhere that I had just been to a week ago and think, "i was pregnant last time I was there". Im so anxious to try again.