The Dynamic Enneagram - Tom Condon works with a Four

Tom Condon works with Enneagram style number Four using patterns. Approximately 4 minutes of a longer video.
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As a four, I feel as if I must constantly validate my presence everywhere I go. I never feel as if I truly belong. I also feel as if I must entertain people in order to hold their attention because they are not truly interested in anything I have to say.

Being a four can suck. Hard. But I wouldn't give it up for anything in the world.

:)

[NWKklown]

I'm a four with a very strong five wing. I would not felt the best, just as the lady felt, at the end of the video.

its kind of cool being a four but it can suck so much, too.

[utubenicholas]

@queentantrumofficial I suppose that why your looking at this video today.. hehe

[shtm93]

I would cry in the end if I was her.

Btw, are you sure that she's a 4? She might not be a 3w4?

[queentantrumofficial]

I'm a 4, flipping between 3 and 5 wings - I'm feeling very 5 today!

[rbtoo170191]

@itsaMASQUERADE Just two Questions:

Can you tell us (me) what's your type?

Again you. Are enneatypes something you were born with or something you build in your childhood (something similar)? I was wondering, if it's the first option, Why there are so few of 3,4,5,6 (I guess that were the ones you mentioned)? (I said 2 questions, Shame on me xD).

By the way, I'm (or at least I think I'm) a 1, maybe 9 wing. At first, I thought I was 4w5, I'm not sure.

Am I being rude? (as a potential 1) :3

[OdeToNecrophilia]

@stellarshore i agree. she is not a four. i am a four and i'd never act like her.

[OdeToNecrophilia]

i a four with a five wing and i don't relate to this woman. in fact i see myself doing the opposite. i'm naturally different than others, and i don't like normal people, and normal people don't like me anyway so why would i try to get them to like me?

[ilxenu]

She looks like Jackie from "Roseanne."

And yes, she's a Four.

[Wanderer123]

I'm a 4. I'm very familiar with the issues she describes, and listening to her really gets to me...

[stellarshore]

Im no expert be she sounds 4'ish. She said "call a friend", do 4's CALL friends for support?? She seems a bit tolerant of this guys layed back attitude on such a personal topic maybe, being a four I'd have either been spiteful or distant in order for him to get up of his slouch and listen. But she does say she'll be whoever they want her to be, this is a 4, always morphing into a character for the other, its why they make great actors.