People seek out victims, and they want so badly to idealize them. Either to save them, or feel stronger than them, or laugh at them...whatever the case may be. I have Venus in the 12th house, Pisces Ascendant and Neptune in the 10th house. The problem with victim, is that once a person is labeled by a group or person as being as such, they are told to no longer be one. And then when they decide to no longer be a victim, everyone's ideas and projections of them must change. Thus, hatred ensues.
my mom's a virgo and nobody shows compassion towards her because he methods of gaining compasion couldn't be more see through.....
i think if ppl see that you're after compassion, they're not going to give it to you....and if they see that you're being strong in a difficult situation without looking for sympathy then you'll get it....
however, i don't get compassion, i don't seek it, but i want it....i feel like i have it hard, but i hide it so no one can even see my suffering (btw, i'm taurus)
But strangers often show me compassion when I'm in a nice mood. :-)
Because my parents especially show me very little compassion, I rarely feel that I deserve it from others. I was expected to take care of myself - especially emotionally.
So I lick my wounds in private and people never know about my hardships.
I'm a virgo, but i'm not sure if people feel sorry for me because i don't like sympathy and i don't pay attention to it. How can i tell? BTW, pieces have a way of playing the victim as well...lol!
People seek out victims, and they want so badly to idealize them. Either to save them, or feel stronger than them, or laugh at them...whatever the case may be. I have Venus in the 12th house, Pisces Ascendant and Neptune in the 10th house. The problem with victim, is that once a person is labeled by a group or person as being as such, they are told to no longer be one. And then when they decide to no longer be a victim, everyone's ideas and projections of them must change. Thus, hatred ensues.
pattycrful 1 month ago
Virgos are the caretakers of the zodiac after all. Compassion is more instinctive than intentional.
Necromni 3 months ago
With a Sag Mars conj Moon in my 1st house and a Virgo Midheaven and Venus in Virgo -- I have rarely, if ever, experienced compassion from others.
jackinla8 1 year ago
@BiancaWT haha they are the nicest people in the zodiac they are very caring!!! MUCH MORE than the overrated pisces!!!
Aki24san 1 year ago
my mom's a virgo and nobody shows compassion towards her because he methods of gaining compasion couldn't be more see through.....
i think if ppl see that you're after compassion, they're not going to give it to you....and if they see that you're being strong in a difficult situation without looking for sympathy then you'll get it....
however, i don't get compassion, i don't seek it, but i want it....i feel like i have it hard, but i hide it so no one can even see my suffering (btw, i'm taurus)
G19315 1 year ago
My family doesn't ever feel sorry for me...
But strangers often show me compassion when I'm in a nice mood. :-)
Because my parents especially show me very little compassion, I rarely feel that I deserve it from others. I was expected to take care of myself - especially emotionally.
So I lick my wounds in private and people never know about my hardships.
Can Sun in 8h sextile Virgo Saturn in 9h
Sco Moon-Uranus conjunction in 12h
Neptune in 1h (people think I'M compassionate)
jdfodio 2 years ago
I'm a virgo, but i'm not sure if people feel sorry for me because i don't like sympathy and i don't pay attention to it. How can i tell? BTW, pieces have a way of playing the victim as well...lol!
cain825 2 years ago