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[slash4689]

in response to your comment earlier Aspergianstar2009 about letting you know how it went with that girl of which half this video is about lol here goes i asked her straight out do you see me as a friend or more than a friend she was very surprised and she admired that fact that i had the courage to ask her that suffice to say she's not looking for a relationship atm she's not the type of person to trust people easily as she's been burnt before

[Aspergianstar2009]

Which is typical of how Women are left when burned by NTs. I know some very pretty Women that get conned by these NT Players. A good friend of mine was conned and it annoys me.  The person is known to other Women as a player, but they still get conned by him. The girl in question is intelligent and pretty and has a lot going for her, why she went with such a numpty is beyond me.

[Aspergianstar2009]

The best treatment I can recommend is simply getting out there and start with small things like buying a paper from the shop and looking at them in the eyes when you purchase it. THe next step is next time you are waiting to get a bus just ask someone if they know the time most may start a conversation, especially if they are old. Don't go looking to talk about world events, start with something simple. Test the water. Thats how i had to start off and I got no help.

[philsaspiezone]

The only type of woman who has been interested in me are the ones with a learning disability (IQ below 70) and the ones. I had a few when I went into sheltered workshop but if I never been to this place I would have been the 40 odd year old virgin who never had any experience in that area whatsoever as an adolescent, girls would say fuck off I'm fed up not hard up meaning I wouldn't be seen dead going out with an Asperger syndrome person.

[MouldyProductions]

I hate this fact that i will always be seen as the lovers best friend meaning that my freind will get all the girls i will simply be know as the the friend, the nice guy,the guy who is funny but is also emotionally blind i hate this because girls will always say " well he cant love me because he never shows he does he must not like me but the friend can do all of this and so rather than go with the aspie ( who probably feels alot more for her than the freind) will go with the other guy. very sad

[anewman1980]

I agree with all you say, I tried nightclubs etc but it was totally demoralising - the net really is the best option. After meeting, I tend to make the move by text message being suggestive (rather than going all out asking up front) and gauging their response. Unfortunately there's lots of really "needy" women who will pretty much go for anyone - I don't want to feel that I am just anyone (I am me), so I avoid them like the plague. I also suspect a relationship with such a person would not last

[icecreamandsingasong]

date an aspie!! Me and my bf are both but undiagnosed but I m actually 100% sure

[slash4689]

having said that she does trust me a lot, more so than most people and if she was looking for a relationship she would go out with me her exact words were "there's no reason why i wouldn't" so i guess that's a huge plus :P

[Aspergianstar2009]

Add me to MSN I will try and talk to you and even introduce you to some of my friends who all have their own problems. But all of them will not judge you. You are probably adding the wrong type of people.