Black men and women have two differnent cultures

Black men and women as of 2009 see the world differently. I grew up in a time where being a black male and female meant virtually the same thing. But now it does not. We see the world differently. So i have almost just as many hurdles to get over when dating a black women as compared to a non-black women.

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[MetaSensuality1983]

Black feminism is contingent on black men being compliant with it by full acceptance or uneasy toleration. For years black men have supported the black feminist mindset and as a result we've created a monster. How many men hate their fathers but love their mothers. Or state that black men are the strength behind the black community. The reason our women are so emotional and think we're scum is because we support them in this mindset. If we stopped supporting them they'd change.

[pinkkelephant]

i hear u. but the stop supporting thing... in what shape or form should that take? most men have said that will stop supporting it indirectly by marrying outside the race. this will have long term negetive effects. the seeds of strong black men will be scattered. i hear u though. but i fear that things will be beyond repair when the women leave this feminist mind set.

[peachblush8199]

I think these videos addressing black issues are embarrassing black people and making all black people look like self-hating fools! You think you're bright by addressing this but if I was a white supremacist I'd have a field day with this foolishness!

Thanks for giving those who hate blacks ammunition to hold us down pinkelephant and sargewp. You guys are definitely enemies of black people! You guys would make Klansman proud doing his dirty work for him.

[pinkkelephant]

peachblush8199. i'm sorry u feel that way. but not talking about our issues does not help. its not a secret that black america is not where it should be. just turn on your television or walk outside.

[njari2]

Perception is reality.

[gmcmim]

You are putting yourself on a pedestal in this video. Cause most bw can get men of other races,lol. Most don't because they want a bm and will even hold out on nonblack men for a black man. I don't think a lot of brothas understand that though. I know you don't, lol.

[MalloryMallyMal]

@nimjased10 At best, you're buffoons from the ghetto who are only good at playing sports-and even that is only because white men ALLOW you to & they still sign your paychecks (: No one is holding you back or trying to destroy you. You're doing it to yourselves.

[MalloryMallyMal]

@nimjased10 Maybe if black men could run their own successful society, then "white society' wouldn't be "holding you back". You're not getting "revenge" on anyone. Revenge would be running your own successful, powerful countries. And that will never happen.

[tracydukeplump]

@afrolatino380 well said Mr. Afrolatino

[QueenDann]

@mrtundra45 boycott gay black men like you....lol

[mrtundra45]

boycott black women...lol

[EandA23]

Most black men and women are no longer friends every man for himself now.

[Khemistry101]

Wow, Pinkk. I've always seen you as a fair broker...and still do. But, to finally hear you talk this way leads me to believe that its just a matter of time before you "go your own way". There are many brothas who feel exactly the same way you do, but do not wish to publicly state it.

[nimjased10]

because of the fuc*ing WHITE society ! that try to destroy bm  by giving bw jobs, advancement in society~! ANYWAY BM ARE GETTING EVEN !

[FreeDayton]

And of course it's not the colour of skin that connects two people it's what is within.

Stop the war and hate.

Peace and Love mate.