How can I get my mother to accept my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago and I said some really bad things about him to my mother. Now we are back together and she won't get off his case. I tried to explain, but she just hates him! I know I shouldn't have said those things, but what can I do now to make my mother like him again?

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[313xys1]

My sugguestions is to break up with your boyfriend and a new one and move with your life, because first of all your mother wants the best outta you and it's her job to protect you, it's your very own mother and you CANNOT I REPEAT CANNOT replace her for anything so PLEASE OBEY HER RULES!!!!

Lastly when a mother said she hate someone, in your case your boyfriend, she WILL NOT change her mind no matter what and there is a reason for that, I already mentioned that one of the many reasons above.

[lalouthecat]

Hello, I'm in the same boat, but I see this vid was posted a few years ago, I wanted to know what u did to solve your problem? Maybe that would help me too.

Thanks.

[s3176035]

Same here ><

[Wamufreechecking]

What was it that you lied to him about, if you dont mind me askin? As far as your boyfriend goes, this same thing happened in my family. My mom hated my brothers girlfriend with the strongest passion. She just couln't stand anything about her. I would have to say i dont think your moms feelings are ever going to pass completely. My advice would be to try to maintain a distance between your mom and boyfriend, but still initiate a comfortable level of cordiality between the two. Less is more : )

[bish11084]

Girl, this is almost 100% my situation. I understand exactly. I have known mine for 5 years and dated him for 3 1/2. She is acting the same as your Mother. I have been out of my home since 20. And I'm 26.She will never like him. I try to receive approval from mine and eventually you will give up and let your Mom go in some respect. If you please her you will never truly be happy or learn about life and what you want. Email me if you'd like. Good luck

[agajoejonas]

if you relly love him and what to get marred tell your mom how you feel about if and maybe she will exept him for who who he is maybe if you ask your mom some times this works help plain the wedding that might help leve a comment.

[dublenation1234]

well if ur mom relly loved u she would just want you to be happy np matter who it is and she should exept him even if she hates him and that is the reason i never tell my mom anything but then agin i have so much stuff bottled up so that is ur choice

[animefreak0278]

if ur mom's THAT unaccepting then just try to explain to her that she'll regret it later on & if that doesn't work then just leave her out of it

[jennyfromalbania]

tell her that all those things you said her for him were lies!tell her you said those things because you were sad and angry and you couldn't control yourself in those moments!tell her how much you love him!and than I think she will understand you and will speak to him again :D hope I helped you somehow !

[liloboy911808]

Run away with him, move to Las Veges and get married over there.