Uploader Comments (grishno)
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OMG!!! UR SCARY LOOKIN
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Thank you for your responce. Unfortunatly for me, California needs a document saying you have had SRS to get your gender changed. Bummer!
Abby
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Way to go GRISHNO. That was cool the way you helped Jackson2pt0.
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Transition itself is hard this is just another step in the process.
You have a whole bunch of empty check boxes in your transitional life and it's now a full time job to put a check in each box.
Just keep your chin up and move forward one day at a time and expect everything you do to be a struggle.
Asking for help and for HUGS is free of charge and very simple. :)
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I totally agree it is so worth it to get the name change. was a scary thing for me to do as well but it eliminated all the ID problems
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And it's also an issue with changing the gender marker in many states. Not many judges will do it here, you need in most cases your doctor to testify, or a lawyer to assist. Bringing a letter and seeing a judge by yourself can end poorly.
I just filled out my paperwork for my name cahnge. I CANT WAIT, all I need is a job so I can pay for the damn thing! One question for you, you had your gender changed as well? I didnt think you had SRS yet, so how did you get that done? Hope to hear from you!
Abby
Angelinaeldiablo 2 years ago
NYC is pretty progressive, so all I needed to get my gender changed on my drivers license was a note from my doctor saying that I'd been undergoing hormones replacement therapy and that having a drivers license that matched my presented gender was a safety issue. My birth certificate still says male though because it is from Utah and they're much more strict.
grishno 2 years ago
I had the exact same problem with my phone bill. Out of everything I had to change it was the hardest. I'm glad to see that the gender marker on the drivers lincense can now be changed without the surgery.
shatterstar09 2 years ago
it depends on the state with the gender markers. NYC is pretty good about that so all I needed was a doctors notes. To change the gender on my birth certificate though I will need the surgery since I was born in Utah and they have some pretty strict laws around that. Even after the surgery my birth certificate will always show that I was born male, but that on xx date I became female. le sigh.
grishno 2 years ago