Feelings from a Birth Mother

Rhetty talk about giving up her child, Scott.

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[rhettyfrank]

It all depends where you live. I recommend an adoptee support group. Through them they could tell you what to do. The twins are of age. I am on ccnm and I attend a live support group of mothers, adoptees and adoptee parents. It all has to be handled carefully and with the knowledge and support of adoptees and mothers. They have been there so theiri experience will help you. You are not alone. Rhetty

[GREENnPURP]

i wonder how easy it is to find birth parents in paraguay? i have my mommas name

[rhettyfrank]

@GREENnPURP

ASk for help from a search angel or another adoptee..

[imjustmaria]

Hello

I was adopted at 6 months, i love my adoptive family soo much and am thankful to them.I have met my birth parents just a few years ago. At first I did not want to even want to talk to my birth parents but feelings changed as I grew older and now i am in regular contact with them. I hope this helps

[rhettyfrank]

@imjustmaria

I have been feeling very discouraged and yes your message helps. Every message I get helps me hold onto hope.

[iLoveCrissAngel01]

i got adopted at 2 and a half,

i had no choice. i was taken away..

but, my father doesnt even know i was born.

i have nightmares i found him.and he has another kid and she tells me how much i was a mistake..that he didnt want me. so i beat her..

i have 5 brothers and sisters i cant meet

untill im 18... i cant know anything..

today is my BIRTHDAY...

and.. ive never felt more alone..

[rhettyfrank]

@iLoveCrissAngel01 You will be 18 one day so in the mean time take care of you and be the best person you can be so when that day comes you will be well prepared to meet them . I am doing well because I have a support group. Happy Birthday!

[terrabletees2]

I am a birth mother who had a beautiful set of twins (girls) we were seperated when they were 4 yrs old they were adopted by people I knew but they moved & changed phone #s. They grew up thinking I gave them up but I didnt. My lack of money made it impossible to do anything about it. Its now its now 20 years later & the pain is still as bad as it was that terrible day my world came crashing down around me. I know where my girls are & I want desperatly to reunite with them!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

[TheTravelfool]

I am looking for my birthparents. I was born 12/23/1984 in Rochester, NY at RGH weighing 7lbs. I was given the name Mary Theresa. My birthmother gave me a letter saying I had my maternal grandma's blue eyes (sorry they changed to brown mom), my dad's cleft, and her small ears. My bio parents were 21. My dad was in college. My mom was in college studying special ed. He was Italian and my mom was Irish, German, and French (Americans). She is 5ft 5. He is 5ft 9. She's Catholic. Please contact me!!

[iocantoetu]

@GREENnPURP It is a tiny country so everybody knows everybody or is related to each other. I don't think you will have too much problems. Have you tried facebook? Follow the last names that may help you. Good luck!

[charleneANDhannah]

@sarakai i'm adopted, its not a bad thing i love my adopted parents more then anything. you just have to hear the birth moms reasoning for putting her baby up for adoption & try an do an open adoption its best for all of you. i have an amazing relationship with my birth mom and i love her very much for all that she has done for me but that doesnt mean i love my adopted parents any less. you just have to find that equal common ground thats health for all of you including the baby