Can A Guy Love TS Women and Not Be Labeled A Chaser?

My friend Jim asked this question and I've gotten it from guys before. The basic premise is whether a guy who likes transwomen for reasons other than being trans (ie., strength, determination, character, etc.) can do that without being seen as a chaser. Can he have a chance at dating a transwoman and why the heck do transwomen get all bent out of shape about guys liking them? What's the deal?

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[defcon636]

I'm so over the whole labeling thing. I dont care what you folks call me any more. I am engaged to a transwoman and im very proud of it. I dont care if im labeled gay because the truth is i love my partners penis and i could care less if you called me a chaser. If you would call me anything call me happy and in love. This is my first transwoman relationship and it has been the greatest experience. I love my partner dearly and i want the whole world to know that.

[6672rock]

I always thought "chasers" described men or women who simply can't commit to one person and are always looking for the next sexual conquest. I guess it depends on the person, how honest and faithful they are, how much of a fetish is behind their impulses, etc. There are so many factors, but I definitely think fidelity and honesty are the two main issues that separate chasers from non-chasers.

[TheGriffin57]

I guess that I am in awe after watching this video. I am attracted to all types of women not just transwomen. I grew up in a home that was backward and somewhat racist. People of other colors and beliefs were made fun of. I was this way untill Star Trek came along. I quickly came to think that if we were all alike, this would be a very dull and meaning less existance. What is normal is our differances, as it should be. That we become what we want is the right of life. I wish you well.

[jondavismusic]

very well said. I found your video very interesting. I am not sure if I know what a chaser is yet though... I see it very simply. If a guy is in love with a TS, then it shouldn't matter what he is being called. Ultimately the people calling names are closed-minded.

[dangoulding81]

I love your vid's. I'm currently in a "normal" relationship but know myself that I love TG women. Please help me.

[sweet96635]

I can't believe you trans women complain about "chasers". Who the hell else is going to want to date you? At least 99.9% of men who want anything to do with trans women in a sexual or romantic way are chasers. Just because someone's a chaser doesn't mean they're not romantically interested and possibly looking for a LTR though.

And a lot of men lie, so to all you trans women out there who've got a man and don't think he's a chaser, you're probably wrong.

[parhamont1]

Yes it is possible for a guy to love a TS in a normal relationship without being a "chaser". Others may label him as a "chaser", but it is a misapplied label.

[tsloverlarry]

I AM looking for a long-term permanent relationship with a TS. If you want to call me a "chaser", then FINE, but I am looking for a RELATIONSHIP...NOT a series of one-night stands!!!!!

[LOOKING4EXCITEMENT]

your very beautiful, honest, and very right. wish you the best. and Jim also

[heloizyjhenifer]

I get it, you want (using the rhetorical you) to be loved because you're special, apart from having male dna not matching the phenotype. The thing is, if you're special, you have to prove it. Being attractive doesn't count as special in any thinkable way. There are millions of phenotypical women as attractive and more so than you.

Now, I'm attracted to all women, big or small, tall and short, genetic or not, you'd label me a chaser, be it of big bottoms, penises or boobs, depending on the case.

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[EazyTouches]

Are you a transgendered?

You look and sound a beautiful (natural) female.