Raped, Not Ruined - Part 1

Part 1 of 2 video presentations. Diva Mama Tonya talks to women on the subject of "Raped, But Not Ruined". She shares her experiences of being raped several times in her youth, as well as the effects and aftermath those horrific events. Through her story, she conveys to women that through hard work, there is a road to recovery.... and that women must take responsibility for their own healing. A very intimate and powerful message of hope and healing.

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Education

Tags:

• rape
• recovery
• womb-work
• women
• healing

[ChrysalisBound]

~*Thank you for your courage and willingness to share...there is healing to be found there.~*

[DrTonya]

You are most welcome Chrysalis. The healing continues. This is a good thing.

[thevoiceofthewounded]

Oh my gosh I love your message! I am so blessed to have found your page.

I think you have so much to give and there is much to learn from your experiences. Thank you for sharing and thank you for empowering woman- it is so appreciative.

[DrTonya]

Ashe! Wado! Aho! WombHeart Blessings to you!

[kady118]

You are so beautiful (you are not your hair) India Arie.... your video inspire me to move on from that pain i just want to say thank you

[DrTonya]

Wado! (thank you) Kady. I am happy to hear that you are inspired to move on. Give thanks! ...and the healing continues.

[dragonpat666]

thank you for being strong and sharing. men don't understand that rape can destroy women and when you destroy a woman you destroy a nation! but the best thing is that women can heal from this, completely!!

[thevampirevictoria]

i have a few friends how have been raped im sending this to them they need to know that they are not messed up. one girl actually called herself "used good"

[DrTonya]

Blessings to you Noble Princess. Thank you for taking the time to watch this video. Helping women to heal, helps to heal the world! I give thanks!

[DrTonya]

Thank you Catkin for sharing this. If I had known this all those years back, I would have healed faster. :-) Blessings to you!

[HelloCatkin]

Thank you for your inspirational strength!

Yes, orgasm is a muscle spasm that occurs largely involuntarily. It has no more meaning than a simple reflex. We like to think we can control it, but the amount of people having problems reaching climax seem to tell otherwise. It feels humiliating and destructive if it occurs during rape or abuse, as if your body conspired against you. It's important to realize this is not the case. It doesn't mean anything, it is perfectly natural if it happens.