Don't Call Me Your Gay Friend!

Some women embrace homosexuals to the point that it's just...well...annoying.

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[alexandraleckie]

one of my friends thinks that just because he is gay it is ok to greet me by saying hey lesbo. wtf man greet me by my name not my sexuality. its just makes me feel uncomfortable because he say this in front of everyone, and yh i am out and everything but everyone doesn't need to know that i am gay. its just so sily.

[KindaGayBlog]

@alexandraleckie Yeah, that's obnoxious. You should pull him aside and tell him you feel awkward when he does that.

[beckymarie1000]

i love the panda shirt :)

[KindaGayBlog]

@beckymarie1000 Thanks!

[lcowles]

You're SO right. I've had all kinds of communication problems with my great female friend because she thinks gay men are basically women....but with a penis. I had to tell her, "NO. I'm still A MAN." That means we still have that Mars/Venus communication problem that straight men and women do. We will always have some very fundamental differences simply because I am a MAN....not a woman, but with a penis! NOT.

[KindaGayBlog]

@lcowles Great way of putting it! It's unfortunate, but I guess it's something we'll always have to deal with.

[Lanedude08]

THANK YOU! Finally.

It's coming to a point to where I want to slap every girl that's like "oh my god, your gay?! We should totally be BFFs!"

[TheSurrealcast]

Spot on.

[eskimoeason]

i fancy his panda shirt,but white one, haha,so cute,both.

[CaseCloseted]

Yeah, this is definitely one of those things I've thought about and am scared of with coming out haha. Even my older sister has said she wants a GBF to "go dancing with". Really. I'm gay and I am not really big on dancing and clubbing. Haha.

[melvins168]

agree zilions times

[candyazz28]

You are sooo on spot there. I have the same issue. Being gay only means that you are attracted to the same sex. It doesn't mean that you loose testosterone. You are just as much "male" if not more male then her boyfriend or any other man at that. A lot of us gays still love doing very manly things like lifting weights, and sports, and being a cowboy (lol). I also hate it when these hags think that we are into them sexually just because they let us know them. Sometimes I think they are the worst

[LIFESKEY]

Oh spare me! Here we go again... What a self centered person you are showing yourself to be.

[Dash107]

I've also had it where I told a girl friend I was queer, and then they expected me to act a certain way around them after that; they expected me to be feminine etc. which I'm not.

[Stateoftention]

my sister did that to me...we were in a Victoria's secret and she asked me if i was uncomfortable in the store. No bitch im gay not vaginaphobic. And don't ask whats the difference because there is.

[jd7x7jd]

Hmm. Personally I think it's a bit of a non-issue. I have far bigger issues with the guys who suddenly switch personalities when they come out and start acting like the stereotypical queen. I think it's oppressive. Actually, no, I know it's oppressive.

[MDkid1]

gotta have the panda shirt to take on the new year!.....at the end of the year! Hey, I just found your channel ok? BTW I love your videos! :)