Want to Date More Girls? Then Stop Caring

http://www.listenactattract.com/

Ryan Clauson teaches provides a tip on how college men can display to women that they are strong and confident without being arrogant and cocky.

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Ryan Clauson, a sophomore at Northeastern University, has released a two-hour long audio recording called Listen Act Attract, designed specifically for aiding college men stuck in a rut in their search for the right woman.

"I want to help out guys," Clauson said. "Women don't realize that every guy is nervous when approaching a girl-any guy that says he's not nervous is lying. There are different levels of being nervous but every guy gets it. It never really goes away and you always get that feeling. But it gets much reduced with this program."

Clauson's audio advice recording takes the dateless male from the moment of approaching a woman and starting up a conversation, to keeping the dialogue interesting in a way that makes her attracted to him. In this way, he believes the individual may better bridge the gap between the initial encounter to planning another time to hang out.

"There are a lot of books out there about dating, marriage and sex, but before you get to any of that stuff you have to learn, what do you do in the very beginning?" he said. "I give very specific examples and specific advice goes way beyond 'Be confident and smile.'"

Although the audio recording officially launched March 1 of this year, the concept has been in the making for quite some time.

From early 2003 until late 2007, he researched all forms of communication, zeroing in on the attraction between men and women, consulting professors and experts and reading hundreds of books.

He estimates that he has also interacted with at least 2,000 college women over the past five years in order to weed out the stereotypes associated with males and the dating scene.

"I don't want it to be this thing where guys are just using this bag of tricks," he said. "It's ...

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[ScotchTapeWorm]

How can you start the process of not caring? The reason one would attempt to not care is because they really do care. It's kind of a paradox

[ListenActAttract]

Change your focus. What you concentrate on you feel. Can't go into detail but it's very possible.

[soggysandwich123]

How do you just stop caring?

[ListenActAttract]

Couple ways buy if you do it over and over again, and it will happen naturally

[goldmine332]

man i dont care, i mean i just really dont care, thats why im gonna jump off da bridge coz a just dont care man.

[HornetUK1]

ur such a legend

[crazyrj14]

Life is too short....stop caring.

[00great226]

What if we care too much about not caring?

[00great226]

@goldmine332  LOL

[ITSFORFREE400]

dude u are a genuis

[CODsMODs]

@ScotchTapeWorm exactly for example every rapper... 

[MRBLACKPEARL04]

100% true. I would get lots of girls like that then I started to care and everything went to shit.

[Pockets777]

I am a girl. So, to completely not care is not accurate. I would say, care some what. Show that you're attracted to me, but not to the point that it creeps me out. "play it by ear" If I show signs that I like you back, green night. If I don't, yellow light." If I show no interest at all.. "red light" turn around, walk away, I'll be nice about it. I don't mean to sound mean about it. But I don't want to lie either. I am also not generalizing, I know not all women are like this.

[Statuskuo75]

Embrace the awkwardness. That's awesome!

[metallegion501]

i have to disagree i approached a girl who i knew was out of my leagure and probably wouldn't get and she still didn't seem to be in to me.

[rudeboywaz]

when i stop caring and thinking infort ova wmen i fall over ,,