Sayyed Dilaawar Hayaat is giving short lecture in Urdu language about the importance of marriage in the Islaamic engagement ceremony of his cousin ( Katab al kitaab ) ceremony !
sayyed is saying
1) hadiyth is that nikaa7 ( halaal love making in marriage ) is my sunnah
2) as far as fiqh issue is concerned ! zawaaj (nikaa7) is sunnat musta7ab but when a person has got the danger of getting into haraam so it becomes waajib fardh ! and now the conditions of fitna and the so much haraam media going on so nowadays nikaa7 zawaaj is waajib on mo'min brothers and sisterz
3) don't care abt the completion of studies and work ! u do marriage inshaAllaah Allaah will give u sustenance Rizq through the barkah of ur wife
4) apply simplicity in marriage gatherings
5) NO MUSIC Haraam activities ( dancing , senseless interaction ) and other extravagance in marriages
6) apply simplicity in ur life in general and don't do israaf extravagance
7) " one person came to the prophet muhammad (S.A.'a.w.A.w) and said ! ya rasoolAllaah ! i m poor ! i m very poor ! so rasoolAllaah said that don't do anything ! u just got married ! and when he got married so he becomes rich just after marriage and with the barakah blessings of wife coming into his house "
الهم صل على محمد و آل محمد
8) always do the zikr of Muhammad (S.A.'a.w.A.w) in gatherings and talk abt their character and bride should try to follow sayyedah zahraa (S.A) and groom should atleast try to follow Imaam 'Aliy ('A.S) character
8) Allaah forgive the sins of the whole gathering in which zikr of Aale ('A.S) Muhammad (S.A.'a.w.A.w)
mashAllah
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