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Lori Pinkerton owner of Get Up and Date on ABC 15 Sonoran Living

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Uploaded on Nov 4, 2010

Thanks for tuning in to my visit with Sonoran Living! I'd like to thank you for watching by offering you our What Makes You Special? e-book absolutely FREE.

As a fellow desert dweller, I can tell you with absolute certainty that true, heart-pounding, lasting love is not a mirage.

Yet so many women feel like giving up after a cycle of bad dates, no dates, and unfulfilling relationships. Some women believe that love is something that just happens to you—if you're lucky. As we discussed on the show, that is simply not true.

You are in complete control of finding the love you want. You just need to know how to go about it.

• First, you need a plan for making love a priority. Putting ourselves first is not something we do naturally. A dating plan can motivate you. It can help you figure out how to make love come first in your life. Quit talking yourself out of what you want and deserve. Commit to making your dating life different this year. No more lonely holidays.

• Next, you need to assess where you are and what is special about you. A lot of women forget why people would want to be with them. We haven't had a lot of proof lately that we're attractive,
that there's someone truly remarkable out there for us. The catch is that to you won't see the proof until you recognize what is special and attractive about you. The What Makes You Special e-book
that we are giving away on this page will walk you through specific steps for assessing who you are, what you want, and how to find the man who will be your everything.

• Finally, you need the courage to act, to get out of your comfort zone. What action you take will depend on who you are and what's comfortable. But to strengthen social muscles you never knew you had, you have to try something new. Take a class, volunteer, try something you've always been afraid to do. Every small step will embolden you to take more and bigger steps.

Turn these tips (and more) into the first steps you take toward love with the What Makes You Special? electronic book. We are giving you this gift, exclusive to Sonoran Living viewers, for a limited time only, so download now.

Click the button below to download the pdf. (You will need the free Adobe Acrobat Reader to view the document. Click here to download Reader if you don't already have it.)
ENTER IN THE COUPON CODE: SL2010 to get this e-book FREE!


ENTER IN THE COUPON CODE: SL2010 to get this e-book FREE!

Read the e-book on your computer or on your phone, or print it out. You will want paper and a pen handy to start writing down the steps in your preliminary dating plan.

What Makes You Special? will walk you through proven techniques for transforming your dating perspective and changing your approach. But if you are eager to move quickly into a new dating life, starting with this holiday season, you might want a personalized, hands-on approach.

Many women who purchase our e-books appreciate the substantive advice so much that they end up coming back to take our class, Finding Love on Your Terms™.

In this series of private group-coaching calls, I give you detailed, customized tools for creating the dates and relationships you've always wanted. These tools are based on who you are and what you want most from love. It isn't generic advice—every woman is unique and deserves personalized attention. I will walk you through tailoring a specific, concrete plan for putting loneliness behind you forever. Click below to find out more about the class and our bonus offers.

I invite you to take a look around www.getupanddate.com to see the many articles, videos, and blogs we offer for free to help you start changing how you date today. You may find that this is enough to get you going in the right direction.

But sometimes, we get too close to our lives to be able to see clearly. Studies consistently and overwhelmingly show that people who are successful in any aspect of life—business, art, sports, and even love—have had help from a coach or mentor. Humans are social animals. Dating is the ultimate social endeavor. So why do so many of us feel like we should be able to go it alone?

Most of us need a nudge and some practical expert advice to help us move forward. I developed this class because 95% of the women in the Get Up and Date® community have told me that my coaching was the turning point for them. They needed the motivation, the guidance, the proven techniques customized to work for them. The support from other women in the class and on the forum was also invaluable in helping them create meaningful connections on date after date.

You can change your love life without Finding Love on Your Terms. The class just makes doing so easier, clearer, and much, much faster.

Open yourself up this holiday season. Love really is the greatest gift of all.

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