For Women Only: Why Men Don't Call Back

Author and relationships author Kara Oh talk about why some men do not call back and how to deal with that.

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[SirFrancisDashwood15]

Because he didn't know that she was an annoying shrew until he got well into the date. This dating coach is really insulting. She talks about men as if were dense clods and incapable of understanding our superior females. But of course, that's exactly what her female audience believes, so she's also giving them what they want to hear: That females are so dominating and superior that they must be careful what's said around inferior puppy-boys who are easily frightened away. Yea, right!

[zettadom]

Many women set men up for a rejection. They will hand out their number right and left then dismiss most guys who call. They get ego boost from many guys calling. They brag about it and play their phone messages like trophies. I've seen it many times. Guys can get a little gun shy after they've been set up like that enough times. Also, this game usually occurs with younger women, older women not so much. Why not be honest enough to discuss these types of game women play?

[evelsteev]

@yunikage fuck that shit. LOL!

[yunikage]

@zettadom Look up "female hypergamy" and interpret its implications in the context of de facto polygyny, which is what the modern dating scene is.

There is substantial empirical support for your point, and the implications go well beyond what you describe in your comment...

[yunikage]

@evelsteev Because traditional gender roles that benefit women (not paying for dinner, not taking risks socially) MUST BE PRESERVED, whereas gender roles that benefit men are awful and sexist.

It's simple, really. You just have to think like a woman.

[Ibeatyou23]

I'm a man and I watched. *bites lip*

[neechee5150]

Some good points, but her condescending demeanor and langauge directed towards men along with her sexist stereotypes polute what could have been a good message about healthty relationships and dating.

[evelsteev]

Is there a reason why women can't call MEN back? What the fuck.

[evelsteev]

We don't call back because some men, like me, just want to fuck you, and avoid all that stupid romantic shit that some women like.

[TurdFergusonJunior]

this nigga crazy

[zettadom]

@bobfttw Tables won't turn unless demographics or biology change. READ my comment below. Young women have demographic advantage. There are 106 male births to every 100 female births. Men die younger so you have more women only in geriatric age group. Also, women date men an average of 5 years older which means the 20 something females have more men chasing them than there are women available. Bottom line, young women don't NEED to compete. Unless they want to play drama queen they don't call.