Relationship Advice: Rule #1 Men ARE Simple!

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Shay Your Date Diva shares her favorite rule about men as she responds to the over whelming issues of DIVAs who are settling. Follow me on http://www.twitter.com/lovein30days
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[fee20luv]

i miss you!!! shay . hopefully your alright!!!!

[lovein30days]

My camera is broken. Im working on doing a video now:)

[PRTYTHICK]

My question is... If you've done most of the calling and planning and brought gifts, etc. for this man, Can you save the relationship?? Like could I switch up my game... To reignite his attention??... I'm just wondering, cause I'm feeling this man,ALOT... I just started our relationship off wrong.... hmmmmm... This video was very helpful Shay!! Congrats on the wedding!! : )

[lovein30days]

Sweetie,

Great question. Please hear me as I say this in slow motion: You must be willing to walk away and let him go in order for their to be a chance. He doesnt respect you. If a man respects you he does not have the women doing all of that for him. Men do not up grade women who have not made "wifey" from the beginning. He is using you for the "benefits" and although you are really feeling him, you should cut your loses and start over doing it right from the beginning!

With Love

SYDD

[ncfwhitetigress]

I rly disagree with the notion that men are simple. That's how we want them to be, but it's just not true. They have complex emotions and behaviors just like women.

[rmsolympic1]

I am a man. And I agree with her. I would take it a step further, though, and say that self-loving women should implement her suggestions sooner rather than later. For the more you indulge the wrong guy, the harder it might prove to recognize-and appropriately treat-the right man. Too much time and money spent on the wrong guy will leave you broke, biiter, and on-guard against the very man you seek.

[IsaacKnight07]

he didnt have a dad in his life, etc, are all excuses, if a MAN realy loves you, he'll find a way, some of us use our past, our parents etc as excuses, while others see these things for what they realy are, a past that must b improved upon to get what one wants today

[TheGta2011]

FUCK YES! i just got over this dush! and everything you said about a guy doing you wrong he did to me! thank you you helped me so much :) i love yu (no homo)

[rosieparez]

telling me he wanted us to start looking at rings b/c he wanted to marry me. To be honest I was a bit caught off guard. He treated me like a princess and really did have to hunt me down. Men love a chase and don't value anything that comes to easily. We are great friends to this day. I didn't marry him b/c my heart just wasn't all the way in it but he showed me what I deserve and how a man should pursue and treat a woman. Ladies, let them chase you!!

[rosieparez]

I have a prime example of this. I dated a guy for 3 years. We were trying to make it work but it just wasn't. I thought if I did more I could make him love me the way he use to. It seemed like the more I did the less he called and it drove me crazy, I started to wonder what in the world was I doing wrong. Well, I met this new guy and he was wonderful but my mind was still wrapped around the other. I barely paid him any attn and he blew my phone up, treated me like gold and then started

[rosieparez]

You better preach Shay. You are telling the truth girl. I am going to buy your book and give it to some of the young girls I know b/c they need to hear this. When we as women begin to start value'n ourselves more we would see a major difference in the way they treat us. 

[Ravenex2]

@ncfwhitetigress That would be the wonder of the human brain, which has limitless complexities. Complexities that are never controlled by gender, but by cutural influences, upbringing, views on the world, past experiences, etc.

[datingwomensex]

I agree, if a man wants you he will let you know you are the one.

[80mthomas]

Yeah when I've decided that your the one then I'll move mountains to make it happen. The thing with some of us is that we take things for granted and don't realise what we've got until it's gone..