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Uploaded on Oct 14, 2008

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Ryan Clauson teaches provides a tip on how college men can display to women that they are strong and confident without being arrogant and cocky.

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Ryan Clauson, a sophomore at Northeastern University, has released a two-hour long audio recording called Listen Act Attract, designed specifically for aiding college men stuck in a rut in their search for the right woman.

"I want to help out guys," Clauson said. "Women don't realize that every guy is nervous when approaching a girl-any guy that says he's not nervous is lying. There are different levels of being nervous but every guy gets it. It never really goes away and you always get that feeling. But it gets much reduced with this program."

Clauson's audio advice recording takes the dateless male from the moment of approaching a woman and starting up a conversation, to keeping the dialogue interesting in a way that makes her attracted to him. In this way, he believes the individual may better bridge the gap between the initial encounter to planning another time to hang out.

"There are a lot of books out there about dating, marriage and sex, but before you get to any of that stuff you have to learn, what do you do in the very beginning?" he said. "I give very specific examples and specific advice goes way beyond 'Be confident and smile.'"

Although the audio recording officially launched March 1 of this year, the concept has been in the making for quite some time.

From early 2003 until late 2007, he researched all forms of communication, zeroing in on the attraction between men and women, consulting professors and experts and reading hundreds of books.

He estimates that he has also interacted with at least 2,000 college women over the past five years in order to weed out the stereotypes associated with males and the dating scene.

"I don't want it to be this thing where guys are just using this bag of tricks," he said. "It's ...

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  • plader1

    ok that would never work on a girl..

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  • ListenActAttract

    So I guess all the girls I have successfully done this with and the hundreds that my clients have hade success with were not girls.

    Understand, you have stated an oppinion. This video however, is a result. And I only listen to results. If I try something and it works, and other try the same thing and it works too, I say, hey, time to make a video and tell the world.

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  • dan2xplicit

    ok i kno dis might work but trust me it juz makes da girl think dat ur like a nerd r juz wierd jus try telling her oh i like ur shoes r compliment her in some way.

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  • ListenActAttract

    Tell her you like her shoes? I´ll tell you what. Try that on 10 girls and try what I say on 10 other girls and tell me what works better. Wont be close.

    Thanks,

    RYan

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  • Rternsmllpk11

    haha this would work if your life was a movie

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  • vincent4500

    Didn't work! I tried this, I said:

    "i'm reading this book here - it's called "How to Deal With Rejection from Women Without Killing Them as You Always Do" the author says here i should wait until at least the 2/3rd date before mentioning my day-parole scheme...what do you think? and can i buy you a coffee? (wry smile)...

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  • KromZorlac

    well,that's a nice start...all i gotta do know is to build my confidence...

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  • OmAr LiVeS

    OMG listen act attract..EVERYONE HERE IS A COMPLETE FUCKING IDIOT! they think this wont work!? its perfect!ppl love to express themselves n especially their opinions!!! u fucking morons!u have literal, practical advice my friend. just what i was lookin for. and what did i do today?read on the subway.look up bcuz i was thinkin about what my philosophy book was stating and i look to the side see this sexy ass girl lookin at me as if she wondered what i was pondering! n i always n horny on the sub!

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  • OmAr LiVeS

    AND WHY THE HELL NOT!?

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  • MrHav1k

    It sounds like a sketchy way to start a conversation. That's the thing with this PUA bullshit. 99% of it is unnatural shit that people wouldn't do. Would you do this at any other time in your life? No. ITS FAKE, besides, if you're buttfucking ugly, what girl would want to listen to what some ugly ass guy asking a question from a random book want to say?

    All this crap is unnatural unless you're super outgoing to begin with AND are good looking, with the emphasis on looks.

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  • MrHav1k

    And the other 2% are the tall, rich, model looking types.

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  • Jasmine Johnson

    Like if your a girl watching this because you want to see if your guy friends have used this on you.

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  • Macnavor

    what? to read books?

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  • Macnavor

    Also the key to talk to beeeautiful women is to see their body language and see if they are approachable and not creeped out by you....you know women tend to read us our body language to see how nervous or confident we are miles away, so the second part is ask for advice talk about the direction the subway is going joke a little in a playful way ...I do this a lot...and shot a straight look in their eyes ...If I see her in a very direct way and not blinking much she'll feel special

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  • Macnavor

    not my case I can totally approach a complete stranger weather a guy or girl, If it's a girl I have the idea of asking the hour so if she turns her face to me I have time to admire her beauty. There was this one time when this chick was giving some cologne and I approach her try to flirt with her ("croatian beauty" she is) so I ended up knowing she has a boyfriend but also she was the shy one, cause is really hard for her to approach total stranger with no excuse than the cologne.

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  • sarahhobbs

    Uhhh.. Bad advice lol

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