Childfree and having to justify it? We know how it feels.
Uploader Comments (judiav)
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I haven't encountered anyone who doesn't like my childfree lifestyle yet, but I know I'll recieve negative responses and difficult conversations like this video.
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"Will you raise the child if I decide having a child is not for me?"
I'm going to ask that question from now on.
All Comments (19)
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@jashinslayer Why is not wanting children callous or self-centered?
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ahh love this video! it is so me and yes i am selfish haha
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@MahBoi22, hey, there's no need for that. We can all disagree politely, no? I will say God and Jesus as much as I feel like and people can take offense - and choose to watch someone else's videos from now on. "Cunt" is a word that is used to humiliate women and I am not loving it, so there, I take offense by some language too.
:)
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"You are not a real adult until you have children." "And I guess the fact that I pay taxes, pay rent, pay bills, am old enough to be married and am considered a legal adult in the eyes of the law means nothing."
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Haha Breeder Bingo! "You will change your mind." And my response from -Child-free Bingo?' "No one was enough of an asshole to tell you you'd 'change your mind' when you said you wanted kinds, so stuff it."
And, you're not bringing a life into the world knowing that you do not want it, and you are not assuming that someone else wants to be here just because you feel like having them. I think I'm being considerate.
judiav 3 weeks ago
I didn't even know people were responding to this. But to @jashinslayer, I will say - men often want kids knowing that the balk of the work of raising them will fall on the woman. So I guess that is selfish too. Also, I met many men who didn't want children. So, I think your sample may be skewed. Plus, not wanting to have children is not selfish - you are not adding to a world that's over populated.,
judiav 3 weeks ago
And finally, I am loving the ending most of all. This is how I will respond to that question from now on.
MsSbolin 4 weeks ago
@MsSbolin
:)
Glad to be of service to the fellow childfree.
judiav 3 weeks ago