What To Do When He Doesn't Call... What Happened?

http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/singles-dating/ Victorya Rogers, author of the "Automatic Second Date" tells us what to do when he just doesn't call you after the first date... What happened?

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Victorya Rogers - http://www.ManToKeep.com

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[o0AGE0o]

What if you had a date with that person, and you like her, but she doesnt like you? Do you still call back? I mean jeez. No offense, but all the females I knew lied to me. They werent honest people and they felt they had to lie to me all the time and avoid me. I hate it when females act childish and expect the guy to get a "hint".

We know the hints are there and we know them. BUT WE EXPECT YOU WOMEN TO BE DECENT HUMAN BEINGS AND TELL US THE TRUTH, EVEN IF THE TRUTH HURTS!

[DanAndJenn]

You're absolutely right - if she doesn't like you, she should say so. And if the guy doesn't like her, he should tell her that.

But sadly we're not there as a society. Down deep most people will not tell someone they don't like them, they'd rather make up an excuse. Most people don't like confrontation, and they don't want to directly hurt someone's feelings - so they opt to keep that person waiting and "get the hint" rather than telling them the blunt truth (hopefully not in a hurtful way).

[KevinQ]

Guys are messed up?

Exxxcccuuuuuuuse me?

Who's games are we trying to combat with our games?

[Annazayla]

So what if you are in a relationship and your boyfriend still isn't calling or texting you as much as you would like...then what should a woman do?

[QtFlOwEr2]

@xbearcanrockx thats a good point but hes the type of guy who looks for a veriety of women bcuz he wants his first girlfriend to be the one he merries so hes looking around even when he was calling me he was still looking for other women so ya even if there was someone else he would still call me

[xbearcanrockx]

@QtFlOwEr2 how would you know there's no other girl?

do you live in the same house? or are you stalking him and tracking every single one of his movements? o_O;

if you're absolutely sure there's no other girl.. then it's possible he's been held captive by an abusive sibling, had phone privileges taken away, doing other things (like homework) or has personal issue he doesn't want to talk about.

[QtFlOwEr2]

SOME1 PLEASE HELP ME OK I REALY LIKE THIS ONE GUY HE USE 2 CALL ME EVERY NIGHT HE WOULD TELL ME THINGS LIKE IM BEAUTIFUL HE MISSES ME HE LOVES ME THEN HE INVITED ME 2 GO 2 CHURCH WITH HIM SO I DID BUT HE DOSNT CALL ANYMORE AND IT DOSNT SEEM LIKE HE LOST INTREST CUZ WE SEE EACH OTHER SOMETIMES AND HE EGNOLIGES ME ITS BEEN ABOUT A WEEK SO I CALLED HIM NO ANSER I ASK HIM IF HE GOT MY CALL AND HE SAYS YES SRRY WTF HAPPENED I KNOW THERES NO OTHER GIRL DID HE EGNOR MY CALL WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON???

[sameer137]

All three of these women are crazy

[hemikalalanika]

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[Yobachi2007]

@lilsweeti13

I don't have one.

[lilsweeti13]

@MonkWarrior108 yeah cuz only men do that only women do what you said and said twice. Believe me you are so correct, just replece women with lizards and men with clowns.