Why didn't you two realize that you weren't compatible before the baby was created?

So because you two ignored the red flags about each other - the child that you created has to be in the middle of your hate for each other?

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[QueenLioness84]

Also, people get caught up in coupled romance. It can serve as a distraction from signs that may suggest they aren't well matched to begin with. They break up, get bitter and become selfish. They ignore the innocent life caught in the middle and will sometimes use that life as a ploy for revenge. Instead of amicable negotiation, they becker and fight.

[TheLipzShow]

@QueenLioness84 Thank you for your wisdom :)

[caramelking2000]

News flash ! ~ THIS IS YOUTUBE, not the Radio !

[QueenLioness84]

To the other parent. Additional stress is compiled on top of an already weak structure and it crumbles.

D) Unplaned child brith. An unplaned birth can be stressful. Sometimes couples are in the thick of the "honeymoon phase". They're still being aquainted, aren't ready to be parents and perhaps, don't want to. Emotional, psychological, and financial preparation is key. A lack of one or a combination of any stresses the relationship.

[QueenLioness84]

A) Poor structure. Having a child, especially unplaned, adds stress to ANY relationship. All it takes is a slight shove for the "structure" to crumble.

B) They weren't familiar enough with one another. Having differing parenting and adjustment styles is a big deal. The manner of raising a child is important. Finding out you partners parenting style is too different isn't good.

C)Not enough CO-operation. Sometimes, one parent doesn't want to do their share of work, leaving responsibility....

[Weggy5star]

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[Weggy5star]

fuck you bicth hoe

[barstowmama]

This is a question for the ages...just why does a child bring out the negativity in both parents? The child is a blessing, the parents are the problem. They had a blast making the child, but as soon as the pregnancy test comes out positive...they act a plum fool! Great video!