Frantic Girlfriend! How Do I Overcome My FEAR of Sex?

im a girl and i am kinda scared ofmy first time not cuz the pain but because idk what he will think, i think he will think its grss or something, but i think thats normal..?

Well, that's simply what happens when people are brought up to belive that sex is wrong, shameful, and dirty - destroyed for life (as far as enjoing sex uninhibitedly goes at least)

i'm probable the only guy who's scared to have sex and im 17 i think it's called genophobia.

Omg. lmao. I totally have that. its sooo sad.

wow.. helpful hints..
glad I don't have this problem. :-)

Dan and Jenn, thank you very much for recommending the book Feelings Buried Alive Never Die.

I would say this woman suffered from the same condition my wife suffered from at the beggining of our marriage. It is called Vaginismis and its a both phsychological and biological, watch out for our vlog of our sex journey coming soon. in the meantime google vaginismis.

how did u get this problem solved?

maybe she was sexually abused?

perhaps she suffers from bad sexual partners....