Swinging vs Polyamory - Can You Have One Without the Other?

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Can You REALLY Have One Without the Other?

So you've been enjoying the swinging lifestyle for a few years, and are having a blast.

But what if it starts growing into more than just sex with friends - or friends with benefits? What if your husband or wife starts developing romantic (a.k.a. love) feelings for your playmates? Dare we call it polyamory?

And what happens when the jealousy beast rears it's ugly head. Admittedly swingers (and certainly those into polyamory) are not nearly as apt to fits of jealousy as some monogamous couples, but it's been known to happen. As with the couple asking the question for today's video below.

Oh, and if you think swinging or polyamory are a rare occurrence in our society, think again! Check out this survey that over 4,000 of our readers took - Sex Poll: Would You Consider Swinging or Polyamory? The results will certainly surprise you.
http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/sex-and-intimacy/sex-poll-would-you-consider...

So is it REALLY possible to have swinging without polyamory, and vice versa? Is it REALLY?

Watch this short video to find out...

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[Will1471987]

True Christianity (not whats taught in Churches or even much of the Bible) has nothing to do with sex. You could be totally Christian in the true sense and also totally a swinger or whatever. Christianity has to do with forgiveness and ending the illusion and the lie of fear and is on a completely different level than these topics.

[DanAndJenn]

Great comment. We could not agree more!

When we refer to religion/Christianity in this video, we are referring to religion as taught in most churches today.

We tend to subscribe to a more spiritual approach based on love, acceptance, and forgiveness rather than fear, judgement, and control.

[DanAndJenn]

Thanks. :-)

Have an awesome day!

Dan & Jennifer

[dh3st3r]

There are a lot of ignorant respondents who complain that Christianity and alternative sexual relations can not co-exist. People, read the bible, learn of the Christian history and realize that most Christian leaders until about 1100 AD were polygamist or at least accepted having mistresses along with the wife. Wake up and learn about your own religion.

[DevilDogGR]

I think it's funny when gay couples have threesomes, they call it threesomes. But when straights do it, they call it swinging.

[Anabariful]

@dh3st3r ... just b/c a Christian leader does something does not make it right in the eyes of God. Jesus explicitly tells us how to live and it is His word that Christians are supposed to model their lives after ... not some Christian leader's sins back in 1100 A.D.

[emton55]

This video says that one's moral compass of what is right is what a person 'feels' and 'enjoys.' This is hedonism, a belief that serving one's own passions is the moral compass to use. I am not stating my own values here. Just as a student of history I find this interesting. It seems this video is promoting their own particular brand of morality as individualistic, not social. Other cultures believe differently.

[emton55]

I would like to see your numbers, since you speak like some sort of expert. Most leaders? And any student of history knows that many of the political marriages were for political ends and did not necessarily mean they shared a bed of course! It just just paughable ignorance to suppose otherwise. Some marriages of political leaders were for producing heirs, not all. And just because a lot of people do something that makes it ok? Slavery was practised almost everywhere at that time too.

[Ravayen]

Hey guys if anyone is a real trinogamist not so much a polyamorist and not just here to hate/insult i just made a facebook account "Ravay'en Leerstat" and a page "Trinogamy" which im trying to turn into a support/links area so if ya in England preferably the south west look me up or visit the page...im just trying to make friends atm and would love to talk to other Tri's.

Just to clarify if anyone needs it Trinogamy is a serious and COMMITED relationship between 3 people of any sex.

[FIGHTFANNERD3]

@Will1471987 no you cant

[communeosho]

"Make people's love free, make people non-possessive. But this can happen only if in your meditation you discover your being. It is nothing to practice. I am not saying to you,"Tonight you go to some other woman just as a practice." You will not get anything, and you may lose your wife. And in the morning you will look silly. It is not a question of practicing, it is a question of discovering your being"-Osho vist us at communeosho.ning.com

[communeosho]

THE IDEA OF EVIL is the invention of the priesthood of all the religions. It is a great device to exploit humanity -- because once your mind becomes contaminated with the idea of evil, you can never live in peace, you can never live in a togetherness, you cannot stand erect in human dignity. On the contrary, THE IDEA OF EVIL CREATES WOUNDS IN YOU -- which you have known as guilt.- visit us here *** communeosho.co.cc

[MindOfMarco]

Swinging is promiscuous fun. Polyamory is a helluva lot more involved but just as fun when all parties involved are fully committed.

[MrAnteiaAnthea]

heyai am really lonely any guys want to cam let me know

[BobbyIronsights]

finicky non-swinger? I thought you guys didn't talk about your own sex lives?