Talking to Straight Guys

How do you talk to straight people?
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[Uktrayf]

so true. I feel awkward as fuck.

[ExplorationB]

@Uktrayf I know right? It's getting better! I have so many straight friends though

[dothedeed]

featured status well deserved

[ExplorationB]

@dothedeed Thank you :-)

[touchwood108]

Hi,

I think what you are doing is great -providing a platform to discuss gay issues. When we first "come out" there is a period when we are searching and exploring our identity and we may want to do this with the security of other gay people but then when we become more confident it is okay and important to be ourselves all the time no matter whose company we are with. Then we are true to our selves and other gay people.

I hope you keep up your site.

Thanks

[ExplorationB]

@touchwood108 Thanks mate,

that is very nice of you to say! I hope you like following me through my vids, and I hope to explore some more personal issues about my life soon too!

Cheers for watching :-)

[carbajac]

Honestly, I'm pretty sure straight guys do exactly the same thing. As soon as they're in a group, behaviors change, voice drops, they talk different than in other situations, there are extensive studies on male behavior that are aware of this. I think we, gay males, only notice it because we tend to be more aware of our mannerisms when it comes to stuff like this.

It's common male behavior and I've never seen anything wrong with it.

[TheHotstuff1708]

@hotboymaulik - agreed

[RainbowVegan87]

Too large of a majority of straight men aren't worth attempting any meaningful conversation with. The bullshit act men put on among one another grates on my nerves beyond other pet peeves. If I can't be myself, screw the cretins who are lacking the balls to deal with my queerness.

[hotboymaulik]

you are hot......:-) I know its nothing to do wit this topic lol

[foodtestingstrips]

If you read CROSSOVER: Straight men - Gay Encoutners. A lot of straight aussies come to Canada and feel free enough to try gay sex

[hugmeister4744]

When people say to me, "but you don't 'act' gay". I always say it comes from years of practice. There are straight guys in this world that like having a gay friend, but they stray away from femmes. Every straight guy should have at least one best friend who is gay, especially if they have trouble understanding their girlfriend, or girls in general. but make sure you and his girlfriend get along with each other or it wont work.  trust me....been there.

[danielvortisto]

I couldn't agree more! :-) And I'm less ashamed of it now that I've thought about it. Whenever I'm in such a situation, I'll think to myself "Relax!" Have a nice time!

[gritsnsand]

@carbajac Seriously agree. It's like in the animal kingdom.. establishing one's "place in the pack" based on dominance, agression, etc. For humans, you can substitute "successful, sexy, or level of coolness". Similar to sports competition, one sizes up the new guy and ascertains his strengths and weaknesses and subconsciously begins to seek similarities and differences to decide if he likes the newcomer, dislikes the newcomer, or is indifferent, with femininity typically seen as weakness.

[Krylov223]

Ooh, gay Australians. Gives a new meaning to "down under."  Just kidding, I love you guys.

[MitsoRouloFoto]

i'm moreb shy

[noshindaz]

@itsstephenstarxo Same! around my family I tend to do less flamboyant things compared to when Im around my friends, and I always find it awkward talking to straight guys, its wierd :)