Intimacy & Secrets, Beyond Sex & Sexual Intimacy, Romance

Intimacy & Secrets, Beyond Sex & Sexual Intimacy, Romance

Caroline discusses secrets (not Victoria Secret)and how they get in the way of intimacy. Are Secrets really sexy? Relationship advice, Romance advice, love advice,

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Howto & Style

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• intimacy
• secrets
• sex
• sexual
• romance
• beyond
• love
• relationships
• victoria
• advice
• psychetruth
• sexy

[bomberman6]

See when we frist met we became friends cause that what we were looking for friends, so no wonder why there wasen't passion because we weren't looking for it at the time. Other wise i would of done things differently. But she does not seem to understand that. So what can i do to fill her with passion.

[psychetruth]

About the only hint I can give you is that "back rubs" are the often the bridge between friendships and romances.

You should take it slow though over period of many back rubs. You want to build up a high level of trust and comfort with physical intimacy over time. Make each back rub a little bit more intimate than the last.

Be careful not to make a move or sexual advance too quickly though or she will refuse your advance and be more apprehensive towards you.

[bomberman6]

cause in that sence she is being strubbern. If i said something like well is it possable that down the road if it happened there could be passion and she says that i would know if there was, i don't think so. Then she keeps saying were just friends. So she don't believie that passion could happen at any time, she thinks that passion is something given by god, not overly something we create. Then she figures that if people create passion it just lust. what do i do.

[psychetruth]

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I've been in that same situation myself and it's not fun at all.

Honestly, if she has already decided that she won't feel that way about you than she probably won't. I would start looking for someone else.

I know that's probably not the answer you want to hear but where I've seen similar situations, they haven't ended well.

[slackdave]

Wow!! I just remember how I was talking to somebody about a great jamming I did once. The "communication" was so great that I had problems making eyecontact with the others because it was so.. ..intimate I guess.. Like I was baring myself too much.

[flubno]

Intimacy is when I stick my ding dong in your Do Do hole. Back that ass up, Girl ! Back it up.

[lukaqota]

Intimacy is a long term relationschip.

[bakernade]

your fking background and music bores the fk out of me.

[1schwererziehbar1]

goddamn rocket science!

[hevarie]

love to see the expressions of your excitement!

[mellisamouse]

I also think this is why emotional cheating hurts the most.....when someone is getting in timate with someone new, while still in a relationship etc.... ;)

[STREAKER123]

Dear Caroline,

thank you for both of these videos. I think intimacy starts with being a better listener. A person has to be still to hear the world and other people. I will just keep trying to communicate better. Thanks Chris in Cleveland.

Stop by my page if you get a chance...

[bomberman6]

ok when giving a back rub should i say anything. see i figure to say sit down relax then what do i add anything like you smell nice or any other complements. Thanks for all your help and or anything ells should i do.

[bomberman6]

oh and one more thing how often to give a back rub and for how long. Just to do it right.

[bomberman6]

So um what would you say is the best way to get the pesrson into taking a back rub.