Negativity, Criticism & Manipulation

Summer 2010: I am now turning off the comments and voting on most of my videos. If you watched my final video on this channel, you'll know why there have been no new videos. And since I stopped posting, my reasons for leaving have become even more obvious. Google has COMPLETELY destroyed the artistic sub-culture and community that was once here. And the new brand of YouTuber is so far removed from what we once had, that they can't even understand, when anyone tries to explain how it used to be. So I am definitely not coming back. I'm sorry, to all of you who keep asking me to come back. I have absolutely no interest in a mainstream, commercialized site. I miss you all!

Re: the question I asked at the end, I remembered a little bit more. It's little people talk about other people, average people talk about themselves & successful people talk about their goals and how to create a better future.

Is that correct? Anybody?

Category:

People & Blogs

Tags:

• negativity
• criticism
• manipulation
• negative
• cricitcal
• manipulative
• people
• react
• actions
• attitude

[zmajski777]

-by the way, manipulative people do not reveal them selves to new people

-they attract you and "chain you" and THEN they are being manipulative

-i'm saying that they are smarter then people dare to think and that makes their kind free to multiply and "coexist"

[biblegirl7]

@zmajski777 I don't need them to intentionally reveal themselves. I pickup on them pretty quickly. And if you force them to stick to one specific topic, and not add in anything else, it helps a lot. Also, repeat their own words back to them. And NEVER get defensive! You can't think clearly if you get defensive.

[rchelle2000]

I pray for them. My mother is that exact way, and I have prayed and continue to pray for her. I agree that GOD changes hearts, but there has to be some work on their end to. They have to acknowledge the problem. My mother will never acknowledge what she does, and that's the one area that I see no change in. If I point out what she does, and how I feel about it she just starts pointing at me. So I avoid her as much as possible, and continue to pray for her. (great subject:)

[biblegirl7]

@rchelle2000 Have you prayed for God to give you grace with her? Or for you to be patient and understanding with her? Or for God to "expose and remove everything that is not of Him" in both of you? That's what my daughter and I pray =) It's a great way to deal with hidden issues! (His kindness leads to repentance.) <- One of my favorite scriptures... and so easy to forget, or neglect to use with difficult people! I've certainly had my share of issues with my mom. But God is still working.

[gezkah]

How can you be deep rooted in the heart and be able to change? because its not deep rooted, its people with issues or mental problems that are also suffering. Be a bigger person by seeing that.

[biblegirl7]

@gezkah God changes hearts. You ask, wait, work through the issues, and you change.

[zmajski777]

give me hope, tell me there are women who are not manipulative

[guitarprodigy14]

ummm.... not gonna say whats ironic about this video but Why are you RECORDING A VIDEO WHILE DRIVING!!!! I love how they banned texting while driving, the next big thing??? NO VLOGGING WHILE DRIVING!!! ROTFL

[biblegirl7]

@LickLikeStrawberry Sounds like a good way to handle it =)

[LickLikeStrawberry]

i don't call people out on their behavior if it doesn't effect me because its not my job to fix their issues. if it effects me i'll call them out because they are making it my business. usually i just avoid them since too much of toxic people is draining.