Daddy's Girl - What happens to too many homeschooled daughters in the US...

Please read this before commenting. I am not against Christianity or against homeschooling. I am not even against parents raising their kids with their values. What I am against is the current patriocentric paradigm where a girl is taught that her only calling is to marry whatever young man her father either approves or finds for her, and bears his children. But whenever any young men come around, the father finds fault (too poor, not doctrinally compatible, not good looking enough). And so the poor girl stays home, "learning to serve her father at home" as she grows older and less nubile. It is normal for parents to think that no one is good enough for their child. But these patriarchal families take it to the extreme, and the girls trapped between a rock and a hard place. God is not the author of this confused movement.

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[Grlypants]

The government does not want you to home school your children because they will not then be indoctrinated into the New World Order. Look up agenda 21, research the history of the deliberate dumbing down of America. Discover the truth about the UN United Nations. Form your own thoughts and opinions based on what you find and then decide if home schooling YOUR child is so terrible.

[fandediscussions]

This video is not against home-schooling - nor is the US government, in most places and states. Homeschooling your child is terrible if you do not have the skills or the resources to do it, and it is good if you do. People are different, and so there is no one-sized fits all approach. But for those of us who do home-school our kids, we need to be big enough to let them go when they are adults. Failing to do so is just wrong.

[coolcanuck6]

I'm former ATI and my older sister is still at home at 33.... and nope she is never going to find a man!!

[stitch99]

I am totally going to make sure this doesn't happen to my sisters.

[fandediscussions]

@eowynladyofrohan83 - It is sad when we see repeated (3 separate cases, now) homeschooling "Micheal Pearl" disciples beating kids to death. In all fairness, most homeschoolers aren't as crazy as your parents - but some clearly are, and some are clearly worse. And, reciprocating what you pointed out, it isn't fair for someone to say "my homeschooling experience was terrible, so no one should homeschool." This video has never been to condemn homeschooling - just the NUTS!

[eowynladyofrohan83]

@prewrathrapture333 the person who uploaded this video is not mocking godliness, he is saying that rather than fathers helping their daughters find godly husbands they deprive them of ANY man. So many "Christian" men are arrogant narcissists &pick Bible verses that exalt themselves but abuse women/children. A man who enjoys regular sex with his wife but tries to keep his daughter single til she's 40 is selfish &thinks since he's stronger being his needs are more important.

[eowynladyofrohan83]

@thebirdbath Ok you are not addressing the point of this video, of course the uploader wants his daughters to have a decent man. His point is men who do not want their daughters to have ANY man! This is like comparing a parent who prohibits junk food and feeds their children healthy well balanced meals to someone who starves their child. It's lunacy. These kooky men enjoy carnal pleasures left and right and breed like rabbits, then impose infernal celibacy on their daughters.

[eowynladyofrohan83]

@bbbfohio I was homeschooled and am the oldest of 8 kids (and btw I am the same person as dbhma7 where I wrote a previous post here, I now have a more interesting YouTube handle.) It's self-centered to say, "Well I (or my friends) had a good homeschooling experience, so damn everybody else." Everyone talked about what weirdos my parents were, and they weren't surprised to later find out we were beaten and our father took God's name in vain when gritting teeth and cursing toddlers.

[fandediscussions]

@bbbfohio - "If you made the claim that there are SOME examples of this, that may be true. But I don't know of ANY." You accuse me of living in my head? Google the Botkins. Try the Zes Family. Just a few prominent ones. Head the title again: "What happens to too many homeschooling daughters in the US." Any is too many. It isn't just public schooled sluts who are incapable of intelligent thought.

[bbbfohio]

@fandediscussions sorry, but you live in your own head. Step out of your own little world, why don't you?

Your claims are RIDICULOUS. You have nothing but your own experience in your tiny little slice of the world. It's just laughable.

If you made the claim that there are SOME examples of this, that may be true. But I don't know of ANY. By contrast, most public schools girls are raised to be SLUTS who use the word "like" more often than the word "and", incapable of intelligent thought.

[fandediscussions]

@bbbfohio - sorry, but you are dead wrong. This video was written by a second generation homeschooler who married his homeschooled sweetheart, still homeschools his kids, and who has taught in Christian and Public junior high and high schools, as well as at the Junior College level. I have watched the interaction that homeschooled kids have as they are raised, and as they either successfully launch into adulthood - or all too often, fail to launch into adulthood.

[arphaxad000]

i think it is fantastic the amount of discussion and controversy this video has caused! haha