Self Worth, Conditioning, and Attraction

In this video I share with you how we can break down and start to break through our past conditioning as it relates to our sense of self worth. In other words, to wake up and start to live our own life of our creation.


outline:

we've all been through things in our lives which have gotten us down. this could range a specific event or influential people in lives.

so we are going to break this down and then understand how we can break through that pattern

it's hard to give what you don't have

it's likely that the only people who will tell you that you can't do the things you want to do are the people who never did anything themselves.

it's likely that the same people who led to you believe you weren't worthy or deserving didn't feel worthy or deserving themselves.

it's hard to give what you don't have

just because another person did not or does not believe in themselves, is no reason for you to not believe in you.
-these traits are self bestowed and internally generated

we are very impressionable as children as our intellect and sense is less developed and discerning.
-thus we could be surrounded by a certain things and then just take them as for being the way things are.
-truth is, you can't miss what you've never had
-what we may have taken on as the norm in childhood is mostly someone elses version of reality
-hence were a lot of this programming comes from

self worth and deservingness independent conditioned reasons
-job, status, looks, labels, boxes, etc
-more so for the fact that we exist as an integral part of this universe
-ignore this and put yourself down is to put down the whole cosmos

Category:

Howto & Style

Tags:

• abundance
• Interpersonal Attraction
• self esteem
• self worth
• law of attraction
• conditioning
• the matrix

[dlotable]

Have you written any books yet?

[herbgardner00]

@dlotable i have a few outlined...do you think i should?

[AChozenSunn]

@herbgardner00 yes write many books, it seems your uploads are matching up with my life, coincidence?

[herbgardner00]

@AChozenSunn okay, ill get it moving :)

[batfly]

I have seen a couple of your videos now... and I must say I am blown away by your profound and sincere ideas and empathy.

[herbgardner00]

@batfly this means a lot to me as its my intention to get things across in a simple and clear way :)

[ErnestResendes]

Great video ! Thnx !

[SuperCozmos]

After watching this you now have 2,222 views and that is such synchronicity. And you almost said the "f" bomb in this video that was also pretty cool. Great info you got me thinking.

[chrissyolivia]

well said. thank you! :D

[columkenn]

You are alot wiser than I was when I was your age.

[lordtoranaga]

excellent advise

[LotusBlossom725]

Awesome advice. You have a very clear way of communicating your thoughts & you seem to have a really sweet intention to help :)

[trank31337]

It's very hard to unconditionally love because your mind wants to have placeholders and labels and reasons. The mind always tries to reason why and why not. Why love one person and not another? You need reasons. It's overwhelming to love everyone! I've tried. It's hard to even walk past people without expressing something to them because I know how much they matter. But that is so exhausting and most people just get confused and a bit scared!

[trank31337]

I dunno, what if everyone on Earth thought that you sucked and they hated you, how you you possibly be happy under those circumstances? I wonder if it would even be possible..