him him him he he he!!!
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you will also be the only person in the whole room he values because you appreciate his gender identity, you are that rock he can lean on in the beginning [i realize corey is far down the road of transition now so that was more for people who are partners of those FTMs just starting out] i remember the first girl who actually called me Noa, and referred to me as He when i cam out. she broke my heart in the end, but also made me feel very validated & loved for just who i was.
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thats pretty sweet. i think we girlfriends should all be leaders to those who just dont wanna practice lol.
thanx for watchin!!!
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I think your suggestion of PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE is great! My boyfriend recently came out to me as trans, and I am still getting used to the he's and him's. I have definitely made it a point to refer to him as he wishes. And like you and guys, we have a similiar relationship. He's always been more male to me than femme, so it's not so drastic. Today, I slipped up twice... quickly corrected myself and moved on. I notice that the more I say it, the more other ppl say HIM, and HE as well.
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thanks! i try to give advice...cuz i sure as heck needed it lol
thanx for watching!
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I have a MtF friend who I satrted using "she" and other people started doing it too... my motivation though was also that I'm the same and wanted people to do it for me
I think the reason some people don't change the gender pronouns they use, is because they don't want to. It messes with their whole perception of everything society has taught them about gender.
It's really easy to switch from "she" to "he", when you actually try.. but yeah, some people don't want to.
xTwoOfHeartsx 2 years ago
i think you are absolutely right! and yeah its sooo easy once you start with an effort..ppl...pfft..ugh lol
TMatesFTM 2 years ago
and i like you
DJRBBOY 2 years ago
and thank you lol
TMatesFTM 2 years ago
really good insight and suggestions. Nicely done.
tigercMC 2 years ago
thanx alot!! sometomes i get really side tracked..but i think my point was clear lol
TMatesFTM 2 years ago