Narcissist: Irresistible Charmer

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Pathological charmers react with rage and aggression when their intended targets prove to be impervious and resistant to their lure. This kind of narcissistic injury -- being spurned and rebuffed -- makes them feel threatened, rejected, and denuded. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)

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[TiffyBear]

I wonder what is the difference between a narcissist, sociopath and a psychopath??

[samvaknin]

@TiffyBear Sonder no more! Head over to my channel and watch the relevant video.

[TheKhat88]

i know how you feel truly lovely lady however theyre not worth those feelings as they have no feelings for ex narsisstic sources of supply like you & me. better to put our energy into a healthy relationship with someone genuine & balanced

[InstructorKM]

Why womas love those guys most ?

Those guys are alpha male ?

Nice guys are rejected.

[VchaosTheoryV]

@TiffyBear, Sociopath and psychopath are technically the same thing. NPD and Psychopathy are closely linked, except for key underlying factors that distinguishes them apart. Of course it is a spectrum of severity where as you have healthy narcissism on one end, NPD in the middle, Malignant on the end border-lined with Psychopathy.

[872847945]

Thank youMr.Vaknin,for all your videos.perhaps now all these facts will educate mainstream society,and family court will be aware for children's emotional wellbeing,instead of fooled by demanding narcissists.Thank you.Don't stop for the children's sake.They need you.

[CheddarBob39]

A narcissist isn't very tolerant of anything. I know this stuff because I used to be one. lol. But I think most of humanity is at least somewhat narcissistic, or I guess egotistical would be a better word. And of course narcissism is when your ego is so big it blinds you from reality.

[CheddarBob39]

A narcissist see's the world in one way and is very naive. I think that's the best way to describe them. If you are told you are great your whole life and have never failed at anything, you probably are very narcissitc. lol. Because being a loser can humble you. Narcissists cling to ideas/concepts. Maybe even philosophies. There is nothing wrong with it if it is truly healthy for you and others, but if you are naive, that probably isn't the case.

[collafulbutterfly]

Omg, this is so true it is scary, I'm glad I'm away grim that narccasist now

[franperretta]

Why do narcissists get chronically "lost" when he goes anywhere? (For example: he goes to the store and takes 2 times the normal, or get "lost" parking for 45 minutes-- instead of the "normal 5 minutes"?

[kashmirpage]

@TheKhat88 Amen to that!



[Pippisongbird]

It is so strange to me. I made a suggestion to someone to focus on positive things too because there seems to be a pattern of her only telling negative stories where she is done unto and where other people are bad. It's always, "they did this and they did that". She became very upset at my suggestion.