Pregnancy: Response to MiMidagatekeepa

Male ≠ Masculine & Heteronormative (Heterosexual, Masculine in appearance and behavior. Fulfilling male gender role.)
Female ≠ Feminine & Heteronormative (Heterosexual, Feminine in appearance and behavior. Fulfilling female gender role).

FTM ≠ Masculine & Heteronormative
MTF ≠ Feminine & Heteronormative

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[DarrinTDT]

I demand you stop eating your own cake right now!!! Hahaha

Put down your cake and step away!

[laidbaqq]

@DarrinTDT But its soooo delicious

[LuvlyLivia]

@laidbaqq Hi Xavier, I got a question for you. I hope it's not too personal, but...... have you ever thought of having a relationship with a pre-op or non-op trans woman and having a baby that way? Hypothetically speaking of course. I wonder if that's ever been done.....?

[laidbaqq]

@LuvlyLivia I'm not opposed to the idea. If I were to settle w/someone who could impregnate me [and I was down with the whole process], then yes I would do it. It certainly saves a lot of trouble lol yes, it has been done. I actually saw it on TV, it may have been Discovery Health. The guy didn't know he was pregnant because a lot of the effects of T in the first few months were very similar to a pregnancy. They eventually learned and prepared. I believe his gf actually breast fed the child.

[RobGreatness]

Random but, the phrase is actually supposed to be, as I recently discovered, eat your cake and have it too. Which makes so much more sense than having cake and eating it too.

[laidbaqq]

@RobGreatness lol that makes so much more sense. Its still my damn cake though haha . Let me stop. I still couldn't compare transitioning and having a child with what I was born with - as eating my cake and having it too. Its not like I would be going to great lengths to be able to conceive. Its a function my body is naturally "made" to do.

[EmitPeace4Love]

Hello! I just want to say that you are unique and beautiful in how you express your existence! If you are blessed to carry a child, I give you my blessings. Let me give you my insight on those who disapprove of your choice. They are disturbed because they are projecting their own shortcomings onto you. I am black, white and intersex!! Trust me that nothing or no one can tell you who you are, none of us. We didn't create you, we are only humans. Not gods.

[BriannaaLovely]

@laidbaqq I love your videos, they really help me. I'm dating a ftm and sometimes things get extremely hard on our relationship because of his dysphroia. I try to help the best I can but at times it doesn't feel like I'm doing enough. He makes me happy and he proposed to me on 9/24/11. And ever since then he's been making comments like 'I'm sorry we can't get married like regular couples' how to I help with that? And how can I help him with his dysphoria in the sex department? Idk what to do /:

[TheDaveon]

omg i have ALWAYS said that.... about the cake thing lol:)

[laidbaqq]

I got tired of talking to you. I have explained it in both videos. If you don't understand or agree, then so be it. But do not attempt to dictate my identity. It is impossible to do. So save yourself the time and refrain from trying to tell me who or what I am.