Talk Show: Relationships: Keeping Your Options Open, Wandering Eye

I used to have a radio talk show (on AM radio) on relationships. Many of the topics still come up in conversations I have with people today. I say, "We talked about that on my show." People would ask to hear it. Recently, the need was more imperative than in the past, so I posted it. Interesting responses from different social media site users. Been logging them on my site: http://tracitoguchi.com/talk-show-relationships-keeping-options-open-wanderin... Feel free to let me know your thoughts.

Talking starts 3:43. Topics include (men's) wandering eyes, "keeping your options open," and lifetime mate. My sidekick is Will Bonilla.

Music is from my Feel the Breeze CD. The beginning song is "What's Another Day."

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• relationships
• Talk Show
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• will bonilla
• lifetime mate
• wandering eye
• keeping your options open

[MikesMiyu]

You look good in front of that ElectroVoice RE-20.

[tracitoguchiinc]

@MikesMiyu lol Thanks!

[tracitoguchiinc]

@JunmaiShu Yes, the friends issue is something, again perhaps for another video, as like this topic, there are multiple comments and questions I have about it. Wow, never heard of or tasted oyster stuffing. It sounds uber yum! Thanks, wishing you and your family a wonderful Thanksgiving too (thought we had one more day, but here it is).

[tracitoguchiinc]

@JunmaiShu Thanks for sharing. Yes, the impulse is understandable, but I feel it's what one does with that impulse makes a difference, especially if the person expressed what he/she feels when it happens. If someone in a relationship is admiring someone else, wouldn't the human impulse mean they would pursue that if they could?

[JunmaiShu]

Oh, and I LOVE that movie! I've always gotten along better with women than other guys. My best friend is a girl, and that has caused problems before in relationships. They don't understand, and furthermore sometimes don't believe me that that's all it is (friendship). It's a tough line to toe. And she's dealt with the same problems.

It's great to talk to you again. I hope you have a great Thanksgiving! I make a mean oyster stuffing, if I may self-indulge for a moment?

[JunmaiShu]

Well stated. It's just slimey to gawk at them when you're already with somebody. But we wouldn't be human if the impulse didn't exist to be attracted to beauty. And I've been asked the question before: "do you think she's pretty"? I think it's worse to lie, so I say "yes". You hope they're mature enough to understand what I conveyed above, and if not, you explain it to them and hope they admire the honesty. Not a bad time to remind them that you love them, too ;)

[tracitoguchiinc]

@tracitoguchiinc Someone commented on my blog page (I'll include the direct link in the description). Since he referenced your response, I wanted to share my comment to him: The way and duration (lol) the person looks at another are factors. Like what was said in the show - what is the intent behind it? What is the purpose of looking at another person that fits one's physical attraction tastes if it is attraction which brings the people to be in a relationship together?

[tracitoguchiinc]

@abhishekagarwal77 Mahalo!

[abhishekagarwal77]

nice views!



[tracitoguchiinc]

@JunmaiShu Friends of opposite genders - that's a whole 'nother show! It's an everlasting debate ala "When Harry Met Sally." ^_^